She Decided “We’re Connected at a Soul Level” and Reunited After 1 Year 9 Months—Here’s Why【053】

“We even lived together, but he said he couldn’t imagine marrying me.” “We ended things while still loving each other.”—If you’re wondering whether reconciliation is even possible from a situation like this, I have a story I’d love to share with you.

Today’s story features M, who lived with her boyfriend for a year before he said, “I can’t see you as a marriage partner,” and they broke up. Then, 1 year and 9 months later, he told her, “You’re the only one for me,” and they reunited.

What M did was set a single “belief” in her mind.

M’s Situation: 1 Year 9 Months After Moving Out

M is a woman in her 30s. While dating a talented composer, she often found herself lacking confidence, thinking she wasn’t worthy whenever she saw the women around him. After living together for a year, he initiated the breakup.

Since both of them still loved each other when they parted, they cried together like they were at a funeral. Right after the breakup, she felt so drained that just opening a real estate search site made her feel sick.

Later, M discovered ほめ♡レン (Subconscious Mind × Love Manifestation Channel) and learned the concept of “as you think, so it becomes.” That’s when she decided to set a belief.

The “Belief” M Decided On

Here’s what M decided to believe:

“He and I are connected at a soul level. We live together happily every day.”

Now, this “belief” is slightly different from affirmations in the law of attraction. The “belief” that ほめ♡レン teaches means deciding that something is true for you—not about methods or steps, but about the very nature of your consciousness itself.

Regarding the phrase “connected at a soul level,” M explained: “It gave me the sense that things were working below the surface.” No matter what the external situation looked like, the connection existed. M deliberately chose words that helped her maintain that feeling.

What M Did When Her “Ego” Showed Up

ほめ♡レン frequently uses the term “ego,” which refers to thoughts that react almost automatically to events—like “no contact from him → it’s hopeless” or “he probably has a new girlfriend.” These are reactions born from past experiences and conventional thinking.

Of course, M’s ego came up too. She sometimes caught herself thinking things like, “Are there really cases where people reunite after breaking a cohabitation?” or “He probably already has someone new he likes.”

When that happened, M practiced two things:

• She’d think: “If I care this much, he must be feeling the same way about me”
• When even that didn’t work: “Ego, of course you’re going to show up. It’s okay that you’re here,” and she’d accept it without fighting it

Rather than battling and trying to eliminate her ego, she’d acknowledge it with “of course you’re here.” ほめ♡レン calls this “ego tossing”—not fighting it, not dwelling on it, just letting it flow right through you.

Self-Love Became the Foundation for “Staying in Her Belief”

Throughout this period, M continued to treat herself with care in her daily life:

• During her bath, she’d tell herself, “You’re doing great”
• Every morning, she’d brew coffee and write in her morning notes

ほめ♡レン refers to these daily acts as “self-love.” Not as a method to make things happen, but as genuinely caring for yourself. As these actions accumulate, they create a foundation where your beliefs take root more easily. M says now, “I’ve come to genuinely respect myself.”

The Reunion: The Day Conviction Became Words

March 14, 2023. That day, M spoke with complete confidence at work: “It feels like we’ve already reunited.”

That night, her ex called for the first time in a month.

On March 20th, he came to see her about health concerns, and ended up at her place. With tears in his eyes, he told her:

“In the two years since we broke up, there hasn’t been a single day I didn’t think about you. I tried to forget, but I couldn’t. You’re the only one for me. I want to live together again.”

When M heard those words, she thought: “Because I’d decided the belief that we’re connected at a soul level, hearing that felt exactly right—like the natural answer.”

Because she’d set her belief first, his words sounded like the inevitable answer. This is what it means when they say: belief comes first, reality follows.

Summary: The Power of “Belief” Revealed Through M’s Manifestation

M’s 1 year 9 months of manifestation contained the essence of what ほめ♡レン teaches:

• She set a belief (“We’re connected at a soul level”)
• When ego appeared, she didn’t fight it—she let it pass through
• A habit of self-care became her foundation
• She never wavered from her belief, regardless of external circumstances

She didn’t try to “make” the reunion happen—she decided it was already true. I believe that difference is what created the certainty in her words.

You decided you’re in love. Now live like it — starting today.