【089】Rekindling Love Through the Subconscious Mind——When “I Am Creating 100% of My World” Finally Clicked, Reality Shifted in an Instant

“I’ve learned so much, so why isn’t it manifesting?”

Have you ever felt this way? Spirituality, the law of attraction, the subconscious mind, quantum physics——you’ve studied it all, tried everything, and yet your reality hasn’t changed.

Y was in the same boat. Despite spending over 2 million yen on high-level seminars, reading 500 books, and trying every possible “learning tool,” her love life wasn’t manifesting. But then, something finally “clicked,” and her reality began to shift. Here’s her remarkable story.

Y’s Profile and Background

Y is a 40-something single mother. She divorced while pregnant due to domestic violence and raised her child alone while working as a nurse in a management position. After six years of 17-hour workdays, she had surgery for arrhythmia and resigned. Despite financial anxiety, driven by a desire to “depend on someone,” she met over 50 men across a 10-year period.

At the same time, she studied widely——from spirituality to quantum physics——and participated in high-level seminars costing around 2 million yen. She read approximately 500 books.

Meeting Her Ideal Partner, and Separation Born from Self-Doubt

In 2022, she met a man seven years younger through a dating app. He fulfilled all 50 items on her “ideal partner” list that she’d written down. The relationship started beautifully——within weeks, he said, “Once the kids settle down, let’s be together.”

But when he began preparing to start his own business, his messages became sparse. He even dropped his phone in the ocean and was unreachable for 15 days. Y’s mind flooded with thoughts: “If he’s not messaging, I must not matter to him,” “Maybe he’s fallen for someone else.”

The “ego” here refers to semi-automatic thoughts in reaction to events. Rather than “No messages → It’s hopeless,” which springs from past experiences and anxiety, it’s not her true self speaking. Y’s ego wouldn’t stop, and one feverish night, it exploded. She initiated the breakup with a lengthy LINE message.

15 Years Built on “Lack”

After the breakup, she continued trying divination, counseling, and rekindling methods. But because “negative emotions manifest negative results,” the divinations said reconciliation was impossible, and negative reality continued.

Y reflects: “Through ほめ♡レン, I understood clearly that because my foundation was built on ‘lack’——’he’s not there,’ ‘he won’t message,’ ‘I’m not enough’——my reality was manifesting ‘lack.’ This was the biggest discovery after about 15 years of searching.”

The Moment “How I Think Becomes My Reality” Finally Clicked

When Y encountered ほめ♡レン, she was exposed to the idea that “creating your life means trusting and surrendering to the subconscious,” not controlling it. She stopped inputting information and shifted to “enjoying the present moment.”

Rather than trying to control the subconscious mind, it moves when you trust it. Y began asking herself, “What would the version of me who is loved and abundant do?” and made this her daily standard.

She genuinely committed to self-love——valuing herself. Her pillars became: “Fulfill what I want, what I desire, what I need immediately” and “Don’t do anything that feels hard.” Living with herself first, reality began to shift.

Career, Real Estate, a Car——And Then, a Reunion at a Restaurant

When her consciousness shifted, reality moved rapidly across all areas——not just love.

• Career change: 2 million yen salary increase and weekends/holidays off
• Real estate purchase (currently considering a third property)
• Sold and purchased the car she’d always wanted in two days

Then one day, after visiting an art museum, she casually walked into a restaurant. The waiter who brought her order was——her ex.

The chef who’d been preparing to start his business had become the restaurant’s owner.

“When he greeted me with a smile, when we could talk naturally——in that moment, all the hurt I’d locked away dissolved,” Y recalls. A month later, he sent her a LINE message, invited her to dinner, and they rekindled their relationship.

What This Story Reveals About “Consciousness”

The key to Y’s reconciliation wasn’t “getting messages again” or “changing his feelings.” It was that “I am creating 100% of my world” finally clicked deep within her, and she focused on fulfilling herself. That’s all.

When she could think, “If we’re meant to be, we’ll reconnect somewhere, someday,” her attachment to him had already dissolved. Rather than limiting herself to him, she decided: “Partners, money, beauty——everything that makes me happy comes easily to me.”

Manifesting love through the subconscious isn’t about “attracting him.” It’s about “creating your own world yourself.” Reality simply reflects that belief afterward.

In Conclusion

Y’s story teaches us that no matter how much you learn, if you’re operating from “lack,” you’ll manifest “lack.” And when “how I think becomes my reality” clicks not just intellectually but deep in your core, your entire reality——love, work, money——begins to shift.

For the full details of Y’s rekindling experience, please watch the video below.

📺 He was supposed to be my ideal partner——seven years younger——but self-doubt led to our breakup. Then one day, when “I realized I’m creating 100% of my world,” I went to a restaurant and there he was. We’re back together!