【088】Breaking Free from Phone Fortune Telling Addiction and Manifesting a Korean Drama-like Proposal: A Subconscious Mind & Love Manifestation Success Story

“Even when told reconciliation is possible, I couldn’t believe it. When told it’s impossible, I’d think ‘Yeah, I guess that’s right.'”

Have you ever experienced relying on phone fortune telling while still not getting answers?

Today’s story features R (in her 30s), who transformed from fortune telling addiction, zero self-worth, and emotional instability into the protagonist of a remarkable love story. She met her “Korean drama-like” ideal partner from her vision board and is now engaged and preparing for marriage.

R’s Situation: Starting from Fortune Telling Addiction and Zero Self-Worth

R had a complicated situation with her boyfriend from 2020—they had called off their engagement, leaving them in an ambiguous relationship for over six months. When they finally started dating, they broke up in June 2021.

After the breakup, R would wake up each morning filled with despair, spending her nights on phone fortune telling calls asking “When can we get back together?” This continued for over a month.

Even when told reconciliation was possible, she couldn’t believe it. When told it was impossible, she’d think “Yeah, that makes sense” and accept it.

The Turning Point: “I Realized I Was Ignoring My Own Emotions”

One day, a pivotal moment came for R. She had to meet her ex for certain reasons, and suddenly a flood of emotions overwhelmed her—pain, frustration, sadness.

In that moment, she finally understood:

“Oh. I haven’t been listening to my own emotions at all. I’ve been ignoring them completely.”

This was R’s major turning point.

She had been seeking answers through fortune telling because she didn’t trust her own feelings. She had become dependent on external “answers” because she had no faith in herself.

At ほめ♡レン, we call this kind of “automatic reactive thinking to events” the ego. The ego isn’t your true self—it’s a reaction based on past experiences and societal conditioning. Her emotional roller coaster with fortune telling answers was just one manifestation of the ego’s reactions.

One Year of “Healing Yourself”

After this realization, R stopped relying on fortune telling and committed to healing herself.

At ほめ♡レン, we cherish the concept of self-love. Self-love isn’t a method to achieve something; it’s the act of treasuring yourself. R faced her low self-worth and explored her past trauma.

R realized she hadn’t believed her best friend for over 10 years when she said “You’re cute.” The thought struck her: “If a friend I love doubted my words, I’d be sad. I’ve been doing that to myself.” Gradually, she began accepting compliments from those around her.

One morning, looking in the mirror, she thought it for the first time: “Maybe I’m not as bad as I think I am. Maybe I’m cute.”

Alongside this internal shift, she started writing her ideal partner list.

Her Ideal Partner List Grew to Over 50 Items

What started as just 10 items on her ideal partner list grew to over 50 within a year.

Here are some examples:

• A gentlemanly, kind person who pulls me along like in Korean dramas
• Someone who takes me to Korea often
• It would be even better if they lived in Korea
• Someone who hugs and kisses me a lot
• Someone who accepts and loves me exactly as I am
• Someone with financial stability who can support me

When you begin to value yourself, you become clear about what you truly want. The fact that she could write her ideals without hesitation proved that her foundation of self-love had solidified.

A Proposal Just Four Months After Meeting

In January 2024, while studying languages, R met her Korean partner.

Even though they couldn’t communicate in the same language, they enjoyed each other’s company so much that they naturally began spending more time together. He wanted to date her from the moment he saw her.

R had a strange certainty: “For some reason, I feel like this will last forever with him.”

Four months into dating, he said “I want to marry you.” In September came a formal proposal, and in December he proposed to her again in Korea. They’ve already met her parents, and they’re planning to get married in March 2025.

Seven to eight out of her ten ideal partner traits matched him perfectly. She had written “a guy like in Korean dramas,” and a Korean man appeared.

The Belief R Held Continuously

Whenever R felt herself wavering after meeting her current partner, she kept returning to this thought:

“I will receive the happiness I have chosen for myself.”

At ほめ♡レン, we emphasize the importance of “deciding your thoughts.” Thoughts come first, reality follows. When you decide the thought “I’m happily in love with him,” reality simply reflects that. Because R never wavered from this belief, she arrived at this beautiful outcome.

Summary: The Order of Her Conscious Transformation

Looking back at R’s journey, here’s how it unfolded:

• She realized she had been ignoring her own emotions
• She stopped relying on fortune telling and began healing herself
• She became able to accept compliments from those around her
• She could write her ideal partner list without holding back
• She decided on the thought: “I will receive the happiness I have chosen for myself”
• Reality reflected that thought

For more details about R’s success story, please watch the video.

📺 Meeting a guy like the ones in Korean dramas and receiving a proposal♥️ Breaking free from fortune telling addiction, realizing I’d been ignoring my own emotions, and continuously believing “I will receive the happiness I have chosen for myself”—resulting in a proposal and marriage plans!