【092】Can You Manifest Love with a Celebrity? S’s Success Story of Deciding “He Loves Me” Through Her Subconscious Mind

“My crush is a celebrity, but that’s impossible, right…?”

If you’ve ever thought this, please read all the way to the end. Today, I’m sharing the first-ever success story from ほめ♡レン about manifesting love with a celebrity (a comedian).

S’s Situation: A Romance with a Comedian She Met Through Work

S, our reporter, is in her 20s. Through work, she had the opportunity to interact with comedians. Among them, she became aware of one particular comedian whose comedy style and persona aligned perfectly with her taste, and she became immediately interested.

However, at that time she was still hung up on her ex, so she remained at the level of thinking, “It would be nice if he were at work,” and just supported him from a distance.

Later, she dated another comedian, B, for four months, but they broke up.

About a month after the breakup, an opportunity came at work to talk to the comedian A she had first been interested in.

When she told him, “I’ve been supporting your work,” he responded with, “Since you’ve taken the time to say hello, would you like to grab dinner?”

A few days later, the two went out to eat. They hit it off over a shared hobby (gaming), and at their second dinner date, he confessed his feelings, and they started dating.

“He Loves Me”—What She Decided in Her Subconscious Mind

At ほめ♡レン, we explain the key to manifesting love through the phrase “deciding your thoughts.”

“Deciding your thoughts” means deciding on thoughts like “He and I are in love” or “He loves me”—not through method or procedure, but simply by deciding it within yourself. The idea is that regardless of the current reality, “what you think” comes first.

This is exactly what S decided before they started dating.

“I only decided that he loves me. Rather than thinking about him, I set it up for myself as if it’s natural to be loved by someone you like.”

She didn’t judge based on his attitude or attach conditions like “because he’s a celebrity.” She simply held it as a premise within herself—that’s all.

Facing Your Ego: “Even When I’m Being Egotistical Right Now, It’s Because He Loves Me!”

At ほめ♡レン, we use the word “ego” frequently. Ego is automatic, semi-reflexive thinking in response to events. It’s the kind of negative interpretation that comes up without intention, like “He’s slow to reply → Maybe this won’t work out.”

S’s ego appeared in a form unique to dating a celebrity.

• What if he’s already involved with fans?
• What if a cute female fan comes onto him and he goes for her instead?
• He’s slow to reply → Could he be meeting another woman?

One time he texted her “Live coming up soon,” and when she looked it up, she found the live was starting just two hours later. In that instant, an outlandish ego jumped out: “He’s not being honest, he’s lying, he’s cheating.” This all flashed through her mind in a second.

This is when S developed this particular response:

“His reply is slower than usual → This too is happening because he loves me. Even when I’m being egotistical, it’s because he loves me—so I started converting everything that happens into ‘it’s because he loves me.'”

Regardless of what the ego is about, it transforms into “this is happening because I live in a world where he loves me.” Each time ego arises, evidence that she’s living in a loved world accumulates.

“We Live in Different Worlds” Is a Story Created by Ego

S shared this in her message:

“Even though I’m dating a celebrity, I don’t really have the feeling of being ‘that celebrity’s girlfriend.’ He’s a really normal person; he just happens to have that kind of job. There’s no need to think that we live in different worlds, and there are countless ways to get to know people like him.”

The very feeling that he’s unreachable because he’s a celebrity was the ego filter. For those who have decided their thoughts, reality simply mirrors that decision—regardless of whether the other person is a celebrity.

Also, S had previously heard めぐる say that “celebrity relationships are hard to feature in videos,” so she had thought the relationship might not manifest. Yet now, this video exists.

“Really, isn’t reality so vague? So truly, anything can happen. His words, his actions—none of it matters.”

Summary: Once You’ve Decided Your Thoughts, Anyone Is Easy to Manifest

From S’s success story, here are the key points that stand out:

• S simply held the thoughts “He loves me” and “It’s natural to be loved by someone I like” as premises within herself
• When ego arose, she kept converting it to “Even when I’m being egotistical right now, it’s because he loves me!”
• The feeling of “we live in different worlds” is ego, and the mechanics of manifesting don’t change at all whether your person is a celebrity or not

Whether your crush is a celebrity, whether he replies slowly, whether you have anxious days—for those who have decided their thoughts, reality simply unfolds accordingly. Your love life is already working out beautifully ♡

📺 Manifesting Love with a Celebrity♡ When You Think “He Loves Me!” Your Thoughts Come True ❤