【097】When I Decided “I’m Perfect Just As I Am,” I Got Back Together with a Famous Artist and Received a Proposal | Subconscious Mind and Self-Worth

He’s not texting you, and anxiety creeps in.
Every time you see “read,” you think, “Is this the end?”

Have you ever felt this way?

Today’s success story submitted to ほめ♡レン is about H, who broke up with a famous artist after just 2 months, but after deciding that “I’m perfect no matter what,” she reunited with him and received a marriage proposal.

Let’s explore how the subconscious mind and self-worth connect through H’s experience.

H’s Situation: A Famous Artist She Dated for 2 Months Before Breaking Up

H is in her 30s. In 2022, she met and began dating a famous artist who travels the world.

But his texts were sporadic, and read receipts came slowly. Replies would come suddenly at midnight, or during the day. “I didn’t even understand what kind of life he was living, and I felt anxious,” H recalls.

The more anxious she became, the more she clung to anxiety, and negative thoughts looped endlessly. She began doubting him, and just 2 months into dating, she initiated the breakup herself.

After the breakup, as she worried about “how to make things work,” she discovered ほめ♡レン.

How Subconscious Mind × Love Manifestation Works: Consciousness Comes First, Reality Follows

What ほめ♡レン teaches is the principle: “Think it, and it becomes.”

Instead of searching for ways to “make him and me fall deeply in love,” you first decide on the feeling of being “deeply in love with him.” Reality simply reflects that decision afterward.

The video H watched repeatedly was the “Don’t Take a Single Step Away from Where It’s Already Manifest” series. “I kept thinking that I was dating him and that things were working out perfectly,” she says.

H’s Shift in Consciousness: Removing All Conditions

At some point, H realized something: “Maybe my lack of confidence came from being trapped by fixed ideas about myself.”

He was a world-traveling artist. The restaurants he invited her to were all high-end establishments. This created the consciousness that “he’s beyond my reach, I’m not good enough.”

From that point on, H began removing conditional self-evaluation one by one.

She stopped the pattern of saying things like “I’m beautiful when doing X” or “I’m wonderful when I have Y,” and finally arrived at——

“I’m beautiful with nothing. I’m perfect exactly as I am.”

She repeated this phrase as an affirmation, and even started going to work without makeup. She decided on the belief that “no matter what state I’m in, I’m amazing.”

When negative thoughts arose, she would say “I’m no good (negative) → Oh well (positive)” to cancel them out and create a sense of “nothingness” to balance herself. Her natural habit of saying “oh well” worked beautifully here.

When Her Consciousness Shifted, He Called Out of the Blue

After deciding that “I’m perfect no matter what,” something changed in H.

Reconciliation stopped mattering to her. She found herself absorbed in watching movies, reading books, and other things she enjoyed.

Then in February 2024, the guy she hadn’t been in contact with suddenly called. He said, “Things aren’t going well with my current girlfriend.”

H’s reaction was exasperation—”seriously?”—but at the same time she understood that “the call reached my subconscious.” So she told him firmly, “Please don’t ever contact me again.”

In February 2025, he called again, and this time she said: “This isn’t a complaint hotline, so could you please stop calling?”

The man she once saw as “beyond her reach” she now saw as just a regular person. That’s why she could treat him as an equal.

And H met him wearing no makeup and in rumpled clothes. “Since I had decided that I’m perfect in any state, I had no hesitation.”

Right there, he proposed marriage on the condition that they become serious about building a life together.

H’s Message

“Now that I’m confident that I’m amazing no matter what, I’ve noticed that whether he reaches out or not doesn’t bother me at all. I’ve even developed this mysterious confidence that he won’t leave me, and that I definitely wouldn’t let go of such a wonderful person.”

She stopped being shaken by whether he contacted her or not—not because she did something special, but because she decided that “I’m perfect no matter what.”

Summary: Subconscious Mind and Self-Worth Work Together

What H’s report reveals is that “raising self-worth” isn’t about adding something—it’s about removing all conditions.

Not “I’m beautiful when I have X,” but “I’m beautiful with nothing.”

When she decided on that belief, it no longer mattered whether he texted, whether he seemed “beyond her reach,” or anything else.

Maybe this is what it really means to make things work through your subconscious mind.

For H’s detailed experience, please watch the video.

📺 “I’m Perfect Just As I Am!” and Then One Day, the Famous Artist Confessed and I Got Back Together with a Proposal