Reconciling With Him When You’re Already Together in Your Mind

Hi, it’s Meguru!

When we tap into the subconscious principle of “I think it, so it becomes,” and apply it to love, something powerful happens.
“I think I’m in love with him, so I’m in love with him.”

Here’s what I want you to know:

Because what you think becomes your reality.

Here’s the thing: your thoughts and the “I” that’s thinking them are where creation begins. When your inner world directly reflects in your outer world, then yes — the instant you believe something, it comes into being.

So here’s my question for you:

I’m already in love with him, and we’re getting back together.

It’s already done.
I’m already in love with him.

Now, here’s where things get tricky. The pushback I hear most often is:

Do you see how contradictory that sounds?

It’s like saying:

That’s pretty jarring, right?

It’s confusing. You’re saying things are amazing *and* things are falling apart. That’s a mixed message.

If a friend told you, “I’m super in love with him, but he won’t text me back,” wouldn’t you be confused? Wouldn’t you ask, “Wait — so are things good or bad?”

Or if they said, “I’m totally in love with him, but he’s dating someone new,” you’d think, “Hold on… did he cheat on you?”

When you hear contradictions like this, they don’t land. They don’t feel real. Yet so many of us live in this exact contradiction — we’ve made a decision internally, but we keep one eye on reality, which is basically saying the same confusing thing.

So which one are you choosing — your thoughts or your reality?

This is a real contradiction:

You’ve decided you’re in love with him, yet reality seems to be saying otherwise.

Here’s the thing:

You’re being asked to pick one or the other.
You can’t create two realities at once. You’re going to get *either* a world where you’re in love and thriving, *or* a world where things aren’t working out. That’s just how it works.

Which one do you want?

Things are going beautifully. Things are falling apart. Which would you pick?

I mean, without even thinking about it — you’d want the beautiful one, right?

Then there’s only one move to make.

With “I think it, so it becomes,” you need to put all your focus on the *feeling* of being in love with him and being happy together.

“But reality is like this. Reality shows that.”

I get it, I do. But if you had to choose — which world would you rather live in?

It’s like asking: coffee or tea? You can only pick one.

Yeah, I’m forcing the metaphor a bit, but the point stands: you drink *either* coffee *or* tea. You can’t drink both at the same time.

“I decided I was in love with him, but in reality, he hasn’t reached out to me. I can’t get ahold of him.”

Sure, you *could* mix the tea and coffee, but… that doesn’t really work.

This is why I keep saying: stay somewhat grounded in reality, but don’t get too attached to it.

The problem is when you try to stay loyal to reality instead of your decision.

Which one are you going to choose?