What Does “Just Decide” Really Mean?

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Manifesting through your subconscious mind really comes down to believing something and letting it unfold. When it comes to love, if you truly believe you’re in a loving relationship with that special someone, you’ll naturally embody that loving energy with them.

Once you’ve made your decision, that’s it. Simply live from the place of already having what you want.

But here’s the thing—because it sounds so simple, especially if you’re new to this or have tried other subconscious mind techniques, you might be wondering: ‘What does it actually mean to just decide?’ This question comes up a lot.

What should I do when I “decide”?

I totally get this confusion.

When I first heard “just decide,” I honestly had no clue what that meant in practice.

• Should I decide what I want and then think about it all day long?
• Do I need to state my desire clearly and quickly, like making a wish on a shooting star?
• Should I think “I will absolutely make this dream come true!” with fierce determination?
• Does it mean never doubting that my dreams will come true, as long as I believe they will?
• What do I do when I genuinely feel like “either way would be fine”?
• We’re not even talking right now, so I can’t imagine being in love with him—should I just force loving thoughts with words alone?
• I thought I had decided, but then I catch myself thinking “Yeah right, that’s never going to happen!” Will it still work?

Does any of this sound familiar? Have you ever had one of those “Oh wow, I’ve totally felt that way!” moments?

Just decide. If you feel like you’ve decided, that’s enough.

I’ve covered this in other videos and blog posts, but let me say it again: when we talk about “deciding” in “decide what you want, and it’s done,” we literally just mean making a decision. If you feel like you’ve decided, you’re good to go.

You don’t need to create elaborate affirmations based on your decision. Just think it and decide it. No need to repeat it like a mantra. Now, if you love affirmations and chanting and they bring you peace, go for it! But they’re not required.

 

Personally, I’m not great with affirmations, so I usually skip them when I’ve made a decision. When I try them, my ego gets louder with comments like “That’s not going to work” or “Yeah right,” so they actually backfire for me.

But here’s what I do: even when I don’t feel it emotionally, I sometimes set aside my feelings and simply decide that I’m in a loving relationship with him. Instead of obsessing over it, I tell myself “I don’t really get how this works, but that’s just how it is,” and I let it go. When I do this, it might manifest while I’m not even thinking about it. Or even if I haven’t forgotten, those thoughts that started as just words gradually shift into “Huh, maybe this really could happen? Wait, maybe it actually will?” Things start feeling more real, and before I know it, I’ve become the person I wanted to be. (And that’s usually when it shows up in my reality.)

 

But these are just my personal experiences—they might not work the same way for you. When it comes to “deciding” and “choosing what to believe,” what really matters is how “you” feel about it.

Do you feel confident that you’ve decided?

“I tried to decide. But wait… nothing’s changing, right? Does this mean I’m not deciding correctly? Am I messing this up somehow?”

The more dedicated and hardworking you are, the more likely you are to think this way. But here’s the truth: everyone has their own way of deciding. There’s no magic formula because it really is just about making a decision.

Like I mentioned before, affirmations don’t work for me, but if they feel right to you, use them! If visualization comes naturally, include that. The key is doing what feels authentic and effective for you.

Can you say “I’ve decided”? The answer is within you