Reader Questions #1: How Do You Know If You’ve Really Decided?

Hello. This is Iruru.

Today, I’d like to share some questions I received that I thought would be helpful to many people.

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“I want to get back together, but it was a terrible breakup, so I’m not sure if we can actually get back together. You always say ‘If you think so, then it will happen’ and that’s all you have to do. Can you help me figure this out myself?”

It’s simple: Once you decide, it will happen

I think this is the first question that comes to mind when you start learning about the subconscious mind.

There was a time when I felt this way too, so I totally understand.

On this blog, there is only one thing you need to do to use your subconscious mind to quickly get back together and be in love with him.

“Because I think so, it will happen.” That’s all I ever say.

There are no exceptions to that! Period.

However, many people seem to be wondering, “What does it mean to just decide? What should I do?”

For example,

“Buy a nice notebook to write down your wishes, write your thoughts, and you’re good to go!”

“Once you have decided on your thoughts, write them down on paper and post them where you can see them often!”
I’m sure there are some people who would recommend something like that, but we don’t particularly recommend anything like that.

Of course, you can do that if you want to. But you don’t have to.

Your ego says, “Just making a decision won’t make it come true.”

Really, just decide. Decided! If you think so, that’s it.

So what happens? Your ego gets confused, doesn’t it?

That’s right, your ego, which had been complaining about anxiety all this time, now has nothing to do, so it has some free time.

“There’s no way it’ll come true just like that. If you stay like that, it’ll never come true.”

It might even start muttering something like that.

Our reader this time also became one with that ego, and may have come to us thinking, “Maybe I haven’t made up my mind yet, so how can I make a decision?”

But really, once you decide, it’s over. You don’t have to do anything, and you don’t have to listen to unnecessary ego whispers.

Once you decide, it’s already come true. I want you to try being the person you want to be.

If you start comparing everything with reality, you’ll end up thinking, “It’s not happening yet, when will it come true?”

Please ignore the reality and value the thoughts you have decided on.

Use your free time to do something for yourself

So, if there’s something I recommend doing during that time, it’s to use that free time to deepen your self-love. (This doesn’t mean you have to force yourself to love yourself!)

If you do this, you’ll be able to accomplish things, your ego will become quieter, and by deepening your self-love, you’ll become more aware of what you want. (However, this is not a requirement!)

Sharing a personal experience, the first time I felt like I was able to deepen my self-love was when I went on a solo trip.

I highly recommend traveling alone and enjoying it to the fullest!

Traveling is better than just being alone because it allows you to get away from everyday life.

And since there’s no one else around, you can only talk to yourself. At that time, I want you to say words that heal yourself, not words that criticize you.

Even if it’s not a trip, you can go to a peaceful place, your favorite cafe, or anywhere you can relax and change your mood.

You don’t need to care about how others see you anymore – be proud of yourself for being able to take care of yourself.

In the meantime, even if your ego comes out again, you’ll be able to let it pass right through you, and before you know it, he’s back.