When You Decide, Your Thoughts Override Reality
Hello, this is Meguru.
Today I want to ask you something that might sound a bit intense.
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
Is this true for you?
“Yes, absolutely. That’s my reality.”
But is it really?
If your answer is yes, then I have one more question for you.
What if he’s been distant with you lately?
What if he’s dating someone new?
What if you haven’t heard from him in weeks?
Even then,
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
Would this still be true?
Everything really comes down to this moment.
We’re so in love and happy together (even though it doesn’t look that way right now)
When people say they’ve subconsciously reunited with their person, they’re making a decision.
But here’s the thing – even when you claim you’re blissfully happy together, don’t you sometimes catch yourself thinking
“But that’s not what’s happening in the 3D right now”?
If that thought crosses your mind, then you’re actually believing
We’re not together
(Nothing has changed between us)
Right?
But if you genuinely believe
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
What if he’s been distant with you lately? →I’m happy because we’re in love.
What if he’s dating someone new? →I’m happy because we’re in love.
What if you haven’t heard from him in weeks? →I’m happy because we’re in love.
No matter if he seems cold, no matter if he appears to be with someone else, no matter if the phone stays silent,
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
This remains your truth. But if you believe
We’re not together
(Nothing has changed between us)
What if he’s been distant with you lately? →We’re not together
What if he’s dating someone new? →We’re not together
What if you haven’t heard from him in weeks? →We’re not together
Then ultimately,
We’re not together
(Nothing has changed between us)
Please understand this simple truth first.
No matter which path you choose, your “thoughts” become your absolute reality.
Of course,
Even if someone currently believes they’re not with their person,
“We’re not together (things aren’t working out)” → “We are together (everything is perfect)”
You can absolutely make this shift.
But even then, you need to have those thoughts – you need to become the version of yourself where everything is working beautifully.
In the end, you need to genuinely think
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
That’s exactly how your subconscious mind operates.
Because you think it, it becomes real.
There’s literally nothing more to it.
What’s the difference between people who reunite and those who don’t?
So I started wondering about this.
Why do some people successfully reunite while others don’t?
I pondered this seemingly simple question, but honestly, the answer came to me immediately:
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
It’s simply whether this statement feels true to them or not.
That’s the only difference.
Doesn’t this mean everything else is just noise?
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
All you need to focus on is this “thought.”
“But I can’t do that.
Reality keeps pulling me back down.”
I thought about this too.
Why do some people get overwhelmed by circumstances while others can simply ignore them (or dismiss them completely)?
And again, the answer was instant.
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
It all comes down to whether this feels true to you.
Nothing else matters.
So it’s really about this:
Reality >>>>>>>>>>>>>> Thoughts
Thoughts>>>>>>>>>>>>Reality
The difference is which one you give more weight to.
People who focus on external circumstances (even though no one’s forcing them to) feel obligated to align with what they see.
Can this create quick results?
They unconsciously read the room and try to operate from what appears to be happening.
People who don’t focus on circumstances have released the need to match external appearances, so they no longer feel compelled to constantly check what’s happening around them or use it as their starting point.
That’s why they can genuinely feel:
What if he’s been distant with you lately? →I’m happy because we’re in love.
What if he’s dating someone new? →I’m happy because we’re in love.
What if you haven’t heard from him in weeks? →I’m happy because we’re in love.
This becomes natural for them.
Do you think only super advanced people can do this?
Not at all.
When I didn’t understand any of this, I thought these were people saying crazy things – you know, those really “woo-woo” spiritual types.
But maybe that’s not the case at all.
Maybe I should try embracing the “what if.” Maybe it was actually more unnatural for me to believe everything I saw without question all this time…
A long time ago, someone who truly understood this said it perfectly:
Circumstances are irrelevant.
You’ve heard this countless times, right?
Do you get it intellectually?
But even when I think I understand, I don’t really believe it deep down.
There’s no way circumstances don’t matter.
That’s what I used to think. And here’s the thing – it’s incredibly simple.
No matter how many people tell you “Circumstances are irrelevant,”
If you’re thinking “Circumstances definitely matter,”
Your world will keep showing you exactly why circumstances seem to matter so much.
That’s all there is to it.
Starting right now, let go of everything except this present moment.
So what do I actually do?
Well, exactly what I’ve been sharing on this blog and in my videos.
I focus only on this present moment.
What happens when different aspects of my circumstances try to get my attention?
Whatever’s happening in my external world has nothing to do with me.
I simply toss aside anything that doesn’t serve me because it’s all lies anyway.
That’s the feeling.
Even though I’ve talked about this so many times on my blog and in videos, I know that in the end,
When things pop up in your external world, they don’t feel unrelated.
Things that seem problematic feel very real and too solid to just dismiss.
I get it – that’s what it feels like.
But then,
Because you think you’re at the mercy of “real” circumstances,
You keep creating more experiences of being at the mercy of “real” circumstances.
That’s literally all that’s happening.
I want you to genuinely spend time entertaining the thought: “Maybe none of this has anything to do with my true reality.”
Whether you can do this depends on how committed you are to your happiness.
Looking back at my own journey, I was glued to forums, and when I saw someone’s post, I thought I understood it, I thought I finally got it on a subconscious level, but I was just thinking I was doing the work when I really wasn’t.
Coming back to the main point – I think this whole thing is so beautifully simple it’s almost ridiculous.
circumstances>>>>>>>>>>>>thoughts
thoughts>>>>>>>>>>>>circumstances
Just focus on this shift!
I am happy and in love with him
(We’re together and everything is amazing)
Focus only on this!
Thank you so much!!!
Also, for reference:
If you want to reunite subconsciously, commit completely!
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