“Not Looking at Reality” — The Choice That Brought a Woman Her Reunion in 2 Months After 2 Years of Waiting

You’re hoping for reconciliation, yet you keep seeing unwanted reality staring back at you. Have you ever experienced this?

Even those who study the subconscious mind (the approach of manifesting desires through the power of the unconscious) often find themselves fact-checking against reality, only to think, “I guess it’s just not meant to be” and feel discouraged. There are many who struggle this way.

Today, I’d like to share the story of Ms. M, who manifested reconciliation with her ex-boyfriend—whom she’d parted ways with two years prior—in just two months.

Ms. M’s Situation: A Reality That Looked Anything But Hopeful

Ms. M couldn’t let go of her ex-boyfriend from two years ago and longed for reconciliation.

• She and her ex still had a connection through work
• He was living with another girlfriend
• He was planning to move far away

Objectively speaking, the situation looked extremely difficult.

Ms. M had been studying the subconscious mind and was even practicing visualization (imagining ideal scenarios).

But reality just kept getting worse.

“Even though I’m thinking we’ll reconcile, I find out he’s still living with someone, and then he moves far away…”

In this situation, Ms. M reached out for advice.

The Truth: “When You Keep Looking at Reality, That Reality Keeps Unfolding”

When Ms. M asked, “Why do I keep observing these unwanted circumstances?”, I answered her this way:

“You see, you’re looking at reality. And because you keep looking at that reality, things will keep unfolding based on that reality, no matter how much time passes.”

“There’s no ‘how’ or ‘method’ to it. You’re either in the camp that sees unwanted things and keeps watching them, or you’re in the camp that sees unwanted things and chooses not to look. It’s one or the other—pick your side.”

This is the fundamental principle of the subconscious mind itself: “You become what you think.”

Keep watching unwanted reality, and that reality continues. Direct your consciousness toward what you desire (in this case, “being lovey-dovey with him”), and that reality unfolds instead.

The choice belongs to you alone.

Ms. M’s Turning Point: The Realization of “Emotional Self-Harm”

At first, Ms. M was trying hard to ignore reality. But then, one day, she had this realization:

“Going out of my way to look at unwanted reality is like emotional self-harm—I’m hurting myself.”

Isn’t that phrase striking?

Ms. M couldn’t find resolve through the words “it’s okay to ignore reality,” but when she clearly recognized that she was hurting herself, something shifted.

Finding your own way to make peace with the truth—that’s what truly matters.

Reconciliation in Just Two Months

From late November last year when I received her request for advice, Ms. M reported her reconciliation in less than two months.

Two years of longing, yet reconciliation in two months once she made her decision.

Ms. M left me with this message:

“Once you decide on ‘being lovey-dovey,’ don’t take reality at face value—whether nothing changes or things seem to get worse, it’s all a perfect unfolding. Cherish your intention. Trust in something greater than yourself and stop forcing it.”

Gifts Beyond Reconciliation

And here’s what’s even more amazing—Ms. M received gifts beyond just reconciliation.

She got back nearly 100,000 yen that she’d lost to a scam-like situation.

This is what it means to trust in something greater than yourself (to have faith in the power of the subconscious mind).

Your Reconciliation Is Within Reach Too

Ms. M reflects on those two years like this:

“Learning about the subconscious mind became my greatest treasure. Even though it was painful, every moment was part of the process—a crucial time for me to decide on my own way of being.”

Even if reconciliation seems far off right now, that may simply be a period for you to decide on your own way of being.

When you’re tempted to fact-check against reality, redirect your focus to your intention instead.

Decide on your thought, “being lovey-dovey with him,” and keep your consciousness fixed on that.

Your reconciliation really is within reach, too ♡