【069】I Wanted to Get Back Together, But When I Left It to My Subconscious Mind… A 47-Year-Old Woman Suddenly Started Dating the Most Adoring Boyfriend of Her Life

I thought it had to be him, but when I left it to my subconscious mind, the most amazing person I never imagined appeared—this time, I’m sharing such a wonderful success story with you.

If you can’t let go of the idea of reconciliation, or if you believe “it’s meaningless without someone to love,” I especially want you to read this.

Overview of 47-Year-Old A’s Love Success Story

A is in her 40s. She dated and lived with a partner for about two years starting in 2021, and they broke up in October 2023. Long-distance work stress became a burden, and they ended things after a minor argument.

After the breakup, she “became really depressed and signed up for various sessions,” but nothing seemed to lift her spirits.

Then, she happened to discover Homéren videos on YouTube and started listening to them every night before bed.

The following month, December 2023—at a Christmas live event, she ended up sitting next to a man, exchanged LINE information with him that very day. After a Christmas date, they suddenly started dating.

She reported that her days of being cherished more than ever before in her life had begun.

A’s Shift in Consciousness: The Moment She Removed “By Him”

What A changed was the object attached to the word “adoration.”

At first, A was thinking about reconciliation with the thought “I am the wife who is adored by him.” But as she watched Homéren videos, she began to think more objectively: “Is living in that same cohabiting state again really happiness?”

And then A made the switch.

“Being adored by him” → “Being adored”

It looks like just one word difference, but from a subconscious perspective, it’s a major shift. As long as the condition “by him” is attached, your thoughts remain bound to a specific person. When you remove “by him,” your thoughts become free.

What Homéren teaches about “deciding your thoughts” isn’t “having someone do something for you,” but rather “deciding what state of being you want to be in.” A arrived at this realization on her own.

Facing the Ego

Homéren often uses the word “ego.”

“Ego” refers to thoughts that arise semi-automatically in response to real-life events (he doesn’t contact me, we broke up, things aren’t working out). The voice of self-denial like “I’m just someone who fails all the time” or “I’m someone who can’t even do romance right” is also a type of ego.

A says her ego came up constantly. But she dealt with it like this:

“After watching Homéren videos, I realized it’s all ego, and since I’m an adored wife, I have nothing to do with that ego voice. I started personifying it and responding with a playful attitude.”

Not taking ego seriously, just brushing it off with “that’s not me”—this is the “ego disposal” that Homéren teaches.

The Change Brought by “Self-Love”

Homéren also uses the word “self-love.” Self-love refers to taking care of yourself in general—not something grand, just brewing tea mindfully, going to a concert you love, these everyday moments are self-love.

When A was wondering in a session “maybe I don’t have enough self-love,” Homéren’s words “even just brewing a cup of coffee is self-love” really resonated with her. She says: “I realized everything I’d been doing was self-love, and that put my mind at ease.”

Summary: For Those Considering Reconciliation

At the end of her report, A shared this message:

“Even at 47 years old, I was able to meet someone and adoration became my reality, so for those currently working toward reconciliation, you’ll be fine too. I’m cheering for you.”

When you think “I want to reconcile, it has to be him”—sometimes pausing to ask yourself “but is this really what happiness looks like?” can set the world in motion.

A’s story shows us one answer to that question. Please listen to A’s own words in detail on the YouTube video.

📺 Love Success Story❣️ I Wanted to Get Back Together, But When I Left It to My Subconscious Mind… I Suddenly Started Dating the Person Sitting Next to Me at a Live Event! Now Living My Best Life of Being Cherished