Hello, I'm Iruru.
Yesterday you wanted to get back together.
But today you wanted a new boyfriend.
I think this is quite possible.
People's feelings change, more or less.
Something may trigger you to say, "Ha! and realize their feelings may turn out to be the exact opposite of what they were yesterday.
This time, I would like to write about how the "desire to achieve" changes from day to day.
The only way to make your desires come true in your subconscious is by deciding on your thoughts.
Just a quick recap...
In LoveSync Attraction, subconscious wish fulfillment is "I think so, so it will happen".
In terms of love, it is "I think I am in love with him, so I will be in love with him.
I tell you that all you have to do is decide what you want to achieve.
And the part of 「Lovey-dovey with him」corresponds to "thoughts.
Also, I think so'' and ``I have made up my mind'' do not mean that after I have made my decision, I keep chanting ``I am in love with him'' like a Nembutsu.
There is no set way to decide, but in my personal opinion, once you decide that you're in love with him, it's over and you don't think about anything else.
All that's left is to calmly do what's in front of me and enjoy the happiness that's right in front of me.
Can we change our mind frequently?
So, my answer to whether this "thought" can change like a daily special is a resounding "YES." In fact, if your thoughts do change in such a way, I believe that's perfectly fine.
Yesterday, you may have wanted to reconcile. Today, you might think a new romantic relationship is better. If that's what you're feeling at the moment, then I think it's perfectly okay. However, if your thoughts change too frequently, it could mean that you haven't clearly defined what you truly want within yourself, or perhaps there's still some uncertainty about the "thought" you've decided upon.
In such times, I encourage you to prioritize how you want to be and to gently embrace your own feelings. Through this self-reflection, you may eventually discover the thought you truly want to manifest.
What do you desire right now, and how do you want to be? As you introspect and explore your own "thoughts," you might find that one particular thought becomes clearer over time.
When you don't know what you want to do, leave it to your subconscious!
I myself have experienced being in constant turmoil, grappling with different conclusions every day, whether I should reconcile or embrace a new encounter with someone else.
During that time, I truly cared for the person I wanted to reconcile with, but I couldn't envision a harmonious life together due to personality differences and other factors. I found myself oscillating between the thought that someone else might be better and the desire to return because I still loved them.
Back then, I was utterly unsure about what I wanted, and as a result, my thoughts would change almost daily.
I'd think, "I absolutely want to reconcile!" one day and then be influenced by someone's blog and think, "I want to be deeply in love with someone new!" the next day. My thoughts were constantly flip-flopping, and I became unsure of which path I truly wanted to manifest.
However, one day, I realized that the thought of being happy and enjoying each day, regardless of whether he was in the picture or not, and regardless of who that person might be, remained constant within me.
It felt deeply aligned with who I was. So, I decided to leave the decision of "reconciliation" or "a new encounter" to my subconscious mind and let it take care of that aspect. As a result, in my case, it led me to discover "a new encounter" and "a new someone."
When you're unsure about what you want, reflecting on yourself might not provide immediate answers; it's a process that can take time. Overthinking in such situations can often feed the ego's desires.
Therefore, when your thoughts keep changing, I personally recommend focusing on identifying the thoughts that remain consistent and leaving the rest to your subconscious mind. If it resonates with you, I encourage you to give it a try.
Best wishes, Iruru♡
