Hello. This is Iruru from LoveSync Attraction.
The other day, on a live broadcast on YouTube, I received a comment that said, ``I don't really understand how to ignore the ego,'' so I would like to address this again on my blog.
What's ego in the first place?
In LoveSync Attraction, we talk about wish fulfillment through the subconscious, because you believe so, it becomes so.
The law of the subconscious is very simple. Once you've decided on the desire you want to manifest, that's it. Then, become the version of yourself that has already achieved it.
Focus on the enjoyable and happy things in front of you, do what needs to be done, and cherish and enjoy each day. That's the message we convey.
However, after deciding on your desire, what often gets in the way is your ego.
In LoveSync Attraction, I explain that Ego is thinking that semi-automatically judges and interprets based on past memories and ideas.
In essence, your ego is what automatically and instantly emerges when something happens. In most cases, it's influenced by your past experiences, your preconceived notions, interpretations, and so on.、「Things that have become so common sense to me that I don't even realize it.」
is often the trigger for that ego.
For example, let's say you saw that your boyfriend posted a photo of himself with a woman on Instagram.
And let's say that he has broken up with her in the past after discovering that he was cheating on her on Instagram, and his ego has come out saying, "He's in a photo with a woman! This must be cheating!"
However, for you, it was a conclusion you instantly drew from your past experiences, and you were completely unaware that it
The phrase "being integrated with the ego" is often used, and the previous example is a perfect illustration of that.
When integrated with the ego, you're essentially making judgments based solely on your own internal perspective, which is why it can be challenging to recognize that this is the ego at work.
How can I tell what is ego and what is not?
I think it's quite difficult to distinguish between ego and non-ego when you're integrated with it, but if you want to "realize your desires subconsciously," you'll have to wonder which one is ego. Rather than thinking about it, I think it would be better to think of vague thoughts other than what you want to achieve as ego.
"I've decided to be in love with him! But, he said he wouldn't get back together even when we were dating. Maybe it doesn't matter that I want to get back together. Come to think of it, he was pictured with a cute girl on Instagram the other day. What if she's his girlfriend now?..."
For example, in the example above, the thoughts before ``but'' are thoughts, and everything else is ego.
So, please ignore your ego and just come back to the desire you want to fulfill.
What does it mean to ignore the ego?
The question about "how to bypass the ego" essentially means not paying much attention to the ego. The ego tends to work by making you overthink things, and once one doubt or anxiety-driven thought arises, it can trigger a chain reaction of more negative thoughts. Some people may have experienced this, where once they start thinking about something, it leads to increasing anxiety, and they can't stop.
Bypassing the ego means stopping this chain reaction. It involves letting go of these thoughts, not dwelling on them, and leaving them be. It's like deciding to stop thinking further when doubts or anxieties arise.
For example, consider this:
"I've decided to be in love with him! But he said he wouldn't get back together even when we were dating.
Oh, wait, the past doesn't matter! It's unrelated, and I am in love with him! Oh, but now that I think about it, there was a girl who seemed like his girlfriend in his Instagram post... Oh, right, the present doesn't matter either! It's unrelated, and I am in love with him!"
It could be something like this, but there's no one specific way to bypass the ego. As long as you're able to return to your original thoughts without dwelling on the ego-driven thoughts, any approach works!
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