【091】One-Sided Love Fulfilled After 1 Year 4 Months | Overcoming LINE Blocks, Silence, and “He Got a Girlfriend”

I was rejected by a man I met on a dating app with “I can’t date you,” got blocked on LINE, fell silent, and just when we finally connected again, he said “I got a girlfriend”——.

Today, I want to share the real story of H, who turned her one-sided love into a relationship 1 year and 4 months later.

If you’ve heard the words “subconscious mind” and “law of attraction” but wonder if things can really work out even in a situation like this, I’d love for you to read this.

Contents

H’s Situation: The 1 Year 4 Months of Blocks, Silence, and “He Got a Girlfriend”
The Turning Point Was Anger: “I Don’t Want This Reality!”
How H Handled It When Her Ego Showed Up
Even the Big Fight Became a “Turning Point for Good” in Her Consciousness
What H Shared With Her Viewers
In Closing: No Matter What Reality Shows, You Can Decide Your Thought Right Now

H’s Situation: The 1 Year 4 Months of Blocks, Silence, and “He Got a Girlfriend”

H is a woman in her 20s. She met him on a dating app in July 2023, and things moved quickly—they met four times in one month. But in August, he told her, “I can’t date you.”

Here’s how the next 1 year and 4 months unfolded for H:

November 2023: He calls on LINE, but when she tries to reach out the next day, she discovers she’s been blocked and deleted → radio silence
February 2024: LINE reconnects. After 6 months, they finally meet, but he says “I can’t message you because I got a girlfriend”
May 2024: She notices she’s been blocked on LINE again
June 2024: Block is lifted, he calls, messaging resumes
July 2024: They meet for the first time in 4 months. After this, he starts coming to her place about once a week
October 2024: Their first major fight → After this, his attitude shifts dramatically and he starts saying “I love you”
November 2024: They officially start dating

In H’s own words, it felt like “the most hellish experience of my life.”

The Turning Point Was Anger: “I Don’t Want This Reality!”

When we think of the “subconscious mind,” we might imagine keeping a calm, positive mindset.

But H’s turning point came from a mix of anger and disgust.

When he told her “I can’t message you because I got a girlfriend,” here’s what H thought:

“I hate this reality so much. I don’t want a boyfriend like this!!!!!!!!!!!”

From that moment on, H let go of the outer reality entirely (the guy who wasn’t contacting her, the guy who might have a girlfriend) and decided to live happily with the “sweet boyfriend” inside her heart.

This is what ほめ♡レン calls “deciding your thought.”

What “deciding your thought” means: You decide thoughts like “being lovey-dovey with him” or “being his most beloved wife”—deciding what state you want to be in. It doesn’t matter what the outer reality looks like; you decide “this is what I think.”

H committed fully to the thought of being “his most beloved wife” and didn’t waver from it.

How H Handled It When Her Ego Showed Up

“Ego” is the automatic reaction our mind has to events. It’s the kind of thinking that responds to outer reality and creates anxiety—like “maybe he’s with his girlfriend right now” or “he didn’t contact me = he hates me.”

Of course, H’s ego showed up too.

Whenever the thought “maybe he’s with his girlfriend right now” would pop up, H would ask her inner boyfriend to “comfort me.” Her inner boyfriend would say “I love you so intensely.” And that would comfort her.

During the period when LINE blocks and unblocks kept happening, H reflects: “My ego was incredibly loud.”

Every time it happened, she would watch law of attraction and subconscious mind content and think from the heart, “That’s right, there’s no problem.”

It’s not a problem that ego shows up. The foundation builds through the repetition of catching yourself each time and thinking, “That’s not the truth.”

Even the Big Fight Became a “Turning Point for Good” in Her Consciousness

In October 2024, they had their first major fight.

He kept telling H, “I’m not having fun with you,” “You don’t move my heart.” That was the first time she talked back.

Through this experience, H realized something: “I realized that I hadn’t been showing him the true, confident version of myself that I love.”

And she says that before he came over again, “I decided that this was the turning point toward things going well.”

Even in the middle of the fight, she kept her focus on how things were working out.

After that, he started visiting much more frequently, they both became able to be their authentic selves, he confessed his feelings, and they started dating.

What H Shared With Her Viewers

H left this message:

“I spent 1 year and 4 months in one-sided love, and for over half of that, I wasn’t in real contact with him—it was radio silence. He told me we couldn’t date, not just twice but countless times if I’m being precise. But now I’m dating him. Every day we tell each other ‘I love you’ and ‘I adore you,’ and I’m truly happy. Our relationship is something I couldn’t have imagined a year ago. So everyone, you’re absolutely, definitely going to be okay.”

In Closing: No Matter What Reality Shows, You Can Decide Your Thought Right Now

What H’s story teaches us is this: No matter how terrible your outer reality seems, you can decide your thought right now.

It doesn’t have to be pretty. It can start from anger—”I don’t want this reality!”

And H’s reality truly began to shift from the moment she decided her thought.

For more details about H’s story and Meguru’s insights, please watch the video.

📺 One-Sided Love Fulfilled After 1 Year 4 Months 🎊 LINE Blocks, Radio Silence, and “He Got a Girlfriend.” Then She Surrendered to Reality and “Decided” to Be “His Most Beloved Wife”—And Her One-Sided Love Came True ❤