【077】Create an “All-Accepting Boyfriend” in Your Mind and Keep an Exchange Diary → Marry the Real Person Who Inspired Him! A Love Manifestation Success Story

From crying after a breakup thinking “I’m just an old lady and not cute” to getting married about 2 years later——.

This time, we’re sharing a particularly unique success story from among the love manifestation reports sent to ほめ♡レン. It’s the story of S-san (in her 30s), who created an “all-accepting boyfriend” in her mind and kept an exchange diary with him—only to have the real-life person who inspired him become her actual boyfriend.

What Happened to S-san: Starting After Heartbreak

S-san met a man through a hobby-related online community and became so close that they video chatted every day for about six months. She thought, “We’re going to start dating soon.” But suddenly he stopped contacting her, and then he reported that he had a girlfriend. A formal heartbreak.

His new girlfriend was 8 years younger than him and he said she was “honest and cute,” so S-san fell deeply into despair thinking “I’m an old lady and not cute.” From past experiences of being made to feel insecure about her age by younger boyfriends, she had deeply ingrained beliefs that “men prefer younger women.”

After the breakup, she even confessed her feelings again out of confusion, which made him distance himself further. Around the time she was watching subconscious mind and spiritual videos thinking “none of this is reliable,” she discovered ほめ♡レン. Watching the success story videos, she began to feel hope.

Couldn’t Visualize Reconciliation, So She Created a Boyfriend in Her Mind

In subconscious mind love manifestation, we often hear about “visualizing yourself in a loving relationship with the person you like.” But S-san had a problem. Whenever she tried to visualize reconciliation with her ex-boyfriend, the image of his new girlfriend would flicker in and interfere.

So S-san came up with an idea: “Introduce an all-accepting boyfriend into her mind.”

For the visual model, she used a handsome older guy she saw every morning during her commute. This boyfriend in her mind played the role of “accepting everything unconditionally,” and she even set it up so he would add a messenger-like note at the end: “…that’s what (her ex-boyfriend) was saying too.”

And then she began a “real exchange diary” with this boyfriend in her mind.

The Exchange Diary Built Up “It’s Okay to Be Any Version of Myself”

The method was simple. S-san would scribble her faults and weaknesses in her diary, and her mind-boyfriend would write back accepting everything unconditionally. When he replied, S-san herself would “inhabit” his body and write in large, upward-slanting handwriting.

Here are some of their exchanges:

• “I’m mentally unstable and people say I’m too heavy” → “I can’t be with anyone who isn’t heavy. Stop trying to change”
• “I’m not young” → “I prefer older women”
• “I’m so negative” → “Negativity is your strength, you know. You’re someone who’s worked harder than anyone else”

What’s important to notice here is that the boyfriend in her mind wasn’t simply encouraging her with “It’s okay.” He was affirming the very parts S-san thought were flaws, saying “That’s good,” “That’s why I love you.”

S-san explained it this way in the video: “In my case, I think once I decided how I wanted to be treated by a man, my ideal somehow became bigger than wanting to get my one-sided love to come true.”

This is what was happening in S-san’s consciousness from a subconscious mind perspective: her thoughts shifted from “I want to reconcile with that person” to “I deserve to be loved like this.”

The Commuter Guy Suddenly Became Her Real Boyfriend

While continuing the exchange diary, the guy she’d used as her model suddenly disappeared from her commute one day. S-san thought, “He was just a model anyway, thank you,” and let it go.

A few months later, the guy reappeared during her commute. At that moment, she felt “for some reason I have to talk to him now” ——and silently handed him a piece of paper with her phone number before running away.

That night, a message arrived. They exchanged LINE information. Every morning he sent “good morning,” at lunch “what did you eat,” and at night “good night,” continuing this pattern. After going out together three times, he confessed to her formally at a small hill—a place where she’d cried alone many times after the breakup.

Marriage planned for next month.

And here’s the thing——when she actually dated him, the personality and words of the boyfriend she’d created in her exchange diary were exactly the same. She laughed in the video saying, “It feels like I created him.”

Summary: The Belief That “I Deserve to Be Loved Just as I Am”

What becomes clear from S-san’s report is that in subconscious mind love manifestation, what matters is not clinging to reconciliation with a specific person, but rather how you believe you deserve to be loved.

ほめ♡レン expresses this as “deciding your thoughts”—not as a method or technique, but as a way of being conscious.

• Not “I want him to notice me,” but “There’s someone who accepts every part of me unconditionally”
• Not “I’m too old, it’s impossible,” but “There’s someone who thinks being older is fine”

These are the kinds of thoughts S-san built up through her exchange diary.

For more details about how she manifested this and S-san’s full message, you can watch the YouTube video.

📺 I Put an “All-Accepting Man” in My Mind and Kept an Exchange Diary. I Based His Looks on an Older Guy I Saw During My Commute, and Now I’m Getting Married to Him! ❣️