His Love for You is Always at 100%
Hello.
It’s been way too long since I last connected with you all.
Congratulations on hitting 5,000 YouTube subscribers! What an incredible milestone.
While this isn’t exactly a celebration post for reaching 5K, I’ve been thinking a lot about a topic that keeps coming up in conversations lately: “his feelings for you.”
Struggling to believe he actually likes you?
After reading through countless messages and questions, I’ve noticed that most relationship anxiety boils down to one thing: uncertainty.
I have no idea if he even likes me.
But here’s the thing – if you could truly believe that he loves you with his whole heart,
Whether he texts you back or not,
Even during those long stretches when you can’t see each other
none of that would faze you.
Because your love for him remains constant no matter what.
But on the flip side,
You’re constantly checking your phone for his messages.
Every canceled plan feels like rejection
This tells me you’re not confident that he truly cares about you.
Right about now, you might be thinking, “If he would just tell me he loves me, I’d finally feel secure…
Hold on a second.
Would you really feel secure?
Even if he said “I love you” tomorrow, would you actually believe him completely?
“Sure, he said he loves me, but people say that all the time.”
“He might love me now, but what happens when he gets bored with me?”
“He says he loves me, but his actions don’t match. If he really loved me, wouldn’t he show it more?”
Sound familiar?
Even when someone tells you “I love you,” there’s this voice inside that refuses to accept it at face value.
Some of you might be thinking, “Not me! I’d believe him instantly!” But honestly, most of us struggle with this.
Deep down, you’re questioning how long his love will actually last. You have doubts about whether his feelings are real.
When you can’t trust his love, your mind spirals out of control
If you’re trying to win back an ex, you might be thinking, “Not knowing what’s going through his head is driving me crazy.”
Time keeps passing, and it feels like he’s slipping further away. The more distant he seems, the more convinced you become that he doesn’t care anymore.
Once this mindset takes hold, the negative thoughts just won’t stop.
I need to do something fast or I’ll lose him forever.
I have to reach out somehow, hear his voice, or I’m doomed.
I need to know if there’s even a tiny chance he still cares, if there’s any hope we could try again.
As I’m writing this, I can feel the exhaustion that comes with this endless mental loop. The more you think, the worse everything seems to get.
Your ego is completely out of control.
When you get down to it, this all happens because you don’t believe he loves you.
Of course you don’t think he loves you – you broke up!
But is that really true?
Think about it – even when you were dating and he told you “I love you,” you still struggled to truly believe “he likes me.”
You kept doubting, kept second-guessing everything.
Whether you’re together or apart, there’s always been this nagging worry about whether he really cares.
His love for you is always at 100%!
Be honest – what percentage would you say he loves you right now?
Maybe 80% since you’re apart?
50% because he’s with someone new?
30% since you haven’t talked in months?
Basically zero?
Is his love really that fragile?
Are you okay with that?
If no contact drops it to 30%, does getting back together magically restore it to 100%?
Really?
Wouldn’t you just end up back at 30% the moment you start doubting again, even while you’re together?
I want to tell you something important.
His love for you is always at 100%!
He has already decided that he loves you.
Shouldn’t that be how it works?
That’s exactly how it should work.
Nothing changes until you believe “He loves me!”
Here’s why this matters:
When do you truly feel, deep in your bones, that he loves you?
Think about it for a second.
There’s only one answer.
When you choose to believe it.
Here’s the thing:
The moment you accept “He loves me!”
You start living in a world where he loves you.
This connects to how your subconscious mind works: “What I believe becomes my reality.”
Your subconscious operates on this principle: “Because I think it, it becomes true.”
In love, this translates to: “I believe he loves me, therefore he loves me.”
And the person doing the believing? That’s you.
“I believe this.”
What do you choose to believe?
This is everything.
I believe he loves me
What happens when you think “He loves me”?
When you believe he loves you, you start experiencing a reality where he loves you. Simple as that.
This has nothing to do with whether you’re currently together or broken up.
“I believe (he loves me)” is complete the moment you accept it. Done. That’s it.
Remember the example I mentioned earlier? He tells you “I love you.”
“Wow, he really does love me,” you think. You accept it completely.
You didn’t realize this just because he said the words.
You felt it because you chose to believe “he loves me.”
That’s why sometimes, even when he says he loves you, it doesn’t quite land.
You haven’t fully accepted that he loves you, so doubt creeps in.
The key question is: “What do you choose to believe?“
This changes everything.
Sure, his feelings are his own.
Only he knows what he truly feels, right?
But you still get to decide what you believe.
No matter how many times he says he loves you, if you think “I don’t buy it,” that becomes your reality.
On the other hand, even if he seems distant, if you hold onto “I know he loves me,” that becomes your truth too.
He loves you
His love is always at 100%.
The only person not accepting this truth is you.
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