Does Taking Action Make It Happen — Or Does Letting Go?
Picking up from where we left off, today we’re diving into love advice and relationships.
We get so many wonderful love questions.
Thank you! I’m excited to keep sharing insights with you.
I want to introduce a message from S.
We’ve already been corresponding, and I’m grateful for their openness.
Thank you again ^^
Hi there!
I had a question about using the subconscious mind, so I reached out to you.
When using your subconscious mind to manifest getting back together, is it about building confidence and taking action? Or should I trust that my subconscious will handle everything, including making him reach out to me? Is that approach okay? That’s what I wanted to know.
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My fiancé broke up with me, and I did everything I could think of to win him back.
I finally stopped reaching out because I was exhausted and felt like I’d hit a wall.
But I couldn’t let go, so one day I found your meditation technique and have been practicing it for about a month and a half now.
I love meditating so much that I sometimes wonder if I’m a bit obsessed. I’m wrestling with my ego in the process.
Then it hit me — even when you’re using your subconscious mind, aren’t there times when you still need to reach out and take action?
I’ve heard stories where people stopped reaching out but he came back to them anyway…
Right now, I feel like I don’t want to contact him (until we get back together).
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My affirmation is, “Right now, in this very moment, we’re in a loving relationship together, and he’s asking me to get back together and proposing,” and I believe that if I think it, it will happen…
S, I’m so glad you found the site and videos helpful.
Thank you ♡
First of all, let me say how proud I am of your effort!
Losing your fiancé would be heartbreaking.
But S, you’ve done such an incredible job rebuilding yourself.
That’s truly amazing! !
Please give yourself that recognition!
Here’s what I keep saying: “Letting it happen is the most powerful tool ♡”
So let’s get into this.
There was nothing more you could do on your own.
You’ve exhausted everything.
And honestly, from my perspective, that’s beautiful.
Congratulations!
That’s it.
Because ultimately, you had no choice but to surrender and trust the universe.
You can’t reach out to him (and you’re not reaching out)
When you truly feel like you’ve done all you can and there’s nothing left but to let go, that’s when you’ve arrived at the most powerful place — your subconscious mind.
This is the sweet spot.
There’s no need to peek at what’s happening in reality.
In fact,
you can’t even see what’s happening in the physical world.
That’s when your subconscious mind becomes infinitely more powerful than your conscious efforts.
Whether you take action or not — both are right for you.
And this is the heart of your question.
> “When manifesting a relationship through your subconscious mind, is it about becoming confident and taking action? Or should I trust that my subconscious will handle everything, including his actions? Is it okay to just let it all unfold?”
Here’s the truth:
whichever
you choose will work.
In other words,
pick whichever feels right to you.
You’ve probably noticed how some people manifest by taking action, while others manifest by letting go completely — and both get results. That’s because both are “truth for that person.”
It’s just what that person believes.
So there’s no right way or wrong way, no good way or bad way.
You get to simply choose: do I take action, or do I not take action, or do I surrender completely?
You’re completely free to decide ^^
Especially when something matters deeply to you, your subconscious tries to protect you by searching for the “right answer.” That confusion you feel when people say conflicting things makes total sense.
But here’s the thing:
you don’t have to fall for that trap.
You get to choose what feels right for you.
The moment you felt it = It’s already happened!
What I sense when I read your message is the incredible strength of someone rising from the depths of despair.
You’ve done everything you can, and now you’re surrendering to something greater — just like you described.
That clarity can only come from “I’ve tried everything”
That’s a power like no other.
So here’s what I want to say:
Just let it unfold.
Stop overthinking! Just surrender.
You’ve been meditating and visualizing (and honestly, I’m a little jealous because I’m not great at visualization ♡), so trust that it’s working.
The truth is,
It’s already manifested.
Because through your meditation and visualization, you’re already feeling that happiness, right?
Sometimes you’re already experiencing those loving, intimate feelings with him, aren’t you?
Isn’t that proof?
Isn’t it already real?
“Feeling comes first”
“The physical reality follows.”
Which means:
Feeling the happiness = it’s already happened.
Don’t worry about how it’ll show up in your external reality. You’ve already made it real in your inner world — stay happy there. Don’t doubt it!
So keep falling in love with your inner experience, with him in your imagination, as much as your heart desires.
You can create any reality you want
The reality you’ve created for yourself so far is quite remarkable.
It’s like a plot twist in a drama
You created a world where your relationship ended.
You have the power to create something that dramatic.
And your ego does this thing where it
says, “Why did I create something like this?” and blames itself.
But you don’t have to get stuck there.
You have the power to create a different reality!
That’s the real gift ^^
If you’d rather write a different story, go for it.
The moment you decide on a new story, you step into that reality.
That’s exactly what you’re doing now with meditation and visualization.
You didn’t start these practices because the old approach wasn’t working.
You started them because you decided, “I’m creating a world where we’re deeply in love,” and that decision naturally led you to these tools.
When you look at it that way, the “action” you’re wondering about was simply a natural expression of your inner choice ^^
Either way, there’s nothing to overthink.
Just nurture those loving feelings and enjoy the connection.
That’s what I believe.
Feel free to share any updates with me.
By the way,
might really resonate with you too.
I’ve just uploaded a new video ♡
Understand your subconscious mind and attract your love back!
[Part 7. When Your Friend Says, “You’ll Never Get Back Together”]
When someone tells you that something deeply important to you is impossible, it can pull you down. Well, that’s what this is about…
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