From “I want to get back together” to “I already have it”
Hello, this is Meguru.
I want to get back together with him.
I know many of you visiting this site feel exactly the same way.
When you want to get back together with someone, it means you’re currently not together.
What you’re hoping for—getting back together—is something that hasn’t happened yet. You’re not back together right now. That’s simply the reality.
Let me use coffee as an example to show you what I mean.
When you say “I want to drink coffee,”
you’re really saying “I don’t have coffee right now.”
It’s that straightforward.
What you’re craving—coffee—is something you don’t currently have. The same principle applies to getting back together.
But here’s the thing: if you really wanted coffee, you could have it in your hands within a minute, right?
Getting back together works the same way. If you truly decided to reconcile, it could happen just as quickly. So why does the desire to “get back together” often feel like this endless, unfulfilled longing?
The confidence that it’s already yours
Why do we keep saying “I want to get back together” and “I need this to happen”?
It’s simple: “I want to get back together” tends to get trapped in this cycle.
He’s definitely my soulmate,
He’s perfect just as he is,
I can’t imagine being with anyone else,
I love him no matter what,
It has to be him and no one else!
And it goes like this:
“I want to get back together.”
“I want to get back together.”
“I want to get back together.”
“I want to get back together.”
“I want to get back together.”
We’re back together!
You end up clinging to the wanting instead of stepping into the having.
You really do love him that much, don’t you?
That level of devotion runs so deep?
Honestly, there’s something beautiful about that kind of love.
I genuinely want to see you two reunited.
But here’s what I want you to consider:
“I want to drink coffee” is also a desire, right?
Yet most people treat it as a desire they know with absolute certainty will be fulfilled.
Your deep longing to be with him again could very well be “a desire you know with absolute certainty will be fulfilled.”
Shifting into “I’m already living this”
On this blog, I talk about
applying the subconscious principle “as you think, so it becomes” to love: “I know I’m in a beautiful relationship with him, therefore I am in a beautiful relationship with him.”
That’s the foundation of everything I share here.
This “knowing” that you’re deeply connected with him isn’t just a thought—it’s a way of being. It’s how you choose to show up in the world.
Who are you when you’re blissfully happy with him?
I want you to step into that version of yourself and live from that place.
So when you’re deciding how to be,
here’s what I want you to consider:
Doesn’t it feel a bit limiting to decide that your entire identity revolves around wanting your ex back?
Think about it—is your whole way of being really “I want to get back together!!!”
Some of you might say, “I just want to hear from my ex!” But making “I want to hear from you!” your entire identity feels just as restricting.
Since things are flowing so beautifully between you two, what do you want to experience together moving forward?
That’s what I want you to focus on.
And when you’re envisioning that future, it shouldn’t be about wanting to get back together.
Instead of being the person who’s always saying “I want this to happen” from a place of lack, become “the person who already has this”—like “I’m the happiest woman in love with my boyfriend.”
Will you be “the woman who’s already living her dream love story” or will you stay “the woman who wants to get back together” forever?
When you adopt the mindset of “I’m already living this,” even if your current situation looks different, and even when your mind starts spiraling with thoughts like “I want to get back together. Maybe it’s too late now,” you won’t stay stuck as “the woman who wants to get back together forever.”
Focus on “the me who already has this” and consciously step into that version of yourself.
This is a world where things manifest the moment you truly decide what you want.
If you’re thinking, “Things manifest the moment I decide? I don’t get it,” then think of it this way: you live in a world where your desires are guaranteed to unfold once you make that inner decision.
“I want to drink coffee” is a desire, but you know with certainty that it will be fulfilled.
The same applies to “I want to get back together.” The moment you decide that you want to be happy and deeply in love with him, you’re already living in a reality where this exists in potential.
You already know it’s going to happen. Let yourself feel this truth.
Whether you connect with “The Secret” or any other Law of Attraction teachings, choose whatever resonates most deeply with you!
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