【060】Two Years After Divorce: Her First-Ever Popular Period! When She Learned to Love Herself, Her Ideal Boyfriend Appeared

“At this age, there’s no way anyone could fall for me.”

Have you ever felt this way? The more you’ve experienced heartbreak in the past, the harder it is to shake this belief.

This article shares the success story of K, who experienced a psychologically abusive marriage, endured a five-year divorce process, two years of tears—and then welcomed her first-ever popular period, meeting her ideal boyfriend. Her journey reveals the power of the subconscious mind in manifesting love.

Contents

K’s Profile and Marriage
Two Years of Transformation After Divorce
The Turning Points in K’s Awareness
- She recognized her limiting belief: “Men = Untrustworthy”
- She built the foundation of “self-love”
Her Ideal Boyfriend Appeared
Summary: When Your View of Yourself Changes, Your Reality Changes

K’s Profile and Marriage

K is a woman in her 30s. She married a man she met at a matchmaking party in 2016, but everything changed just one month after their marriage was registered. Her husband declared, “My honeymoon phase is over,” and as his health issues began requiring care, his psychological abuse intensified. She was bombarded with insults, aggressive shouting, and statements like “You have no value” and “Nobody loves you.”

K didn’t even recognize this as abuse at the time. “When I saw him suffering from his illness, I couldn’t afford to be weak,” she thought. “I chose this life myself.” These beliefs prevented her from facing reality.

When her husband brought up divorce in 2019, K refused. She clung to the belief that “at my age, approaching 40, he might be the last person who could ever love me.” After separation and mediation, their divorce was finalized in April 2021.

Two Years of Transformation After Divorce

K cried often in those two years following her divorce. Some tears were from self-blame; other nights she’d cry in frustration as her husband’s harsh words replayed in her mind.

The turning point came when she met a coworker in her 50s. Through this woman, K learned about the “subconscious mind.” Though skeptical at first, she gradually began watching related videos and reading books. She tried various practices, but she recalls, “I was constantly trying to align with reality, so nothing really clicked.”

Then she discovered Homéren (a channel dedicated to subconscious mind × love manifestation), and watched nearly 300 videos until she had absorbed everything.

“All the knowledge I’d learned before suddenly connected through ‘you become what you believe,’ and I felt like I’d acquired the ultimate weapon,” K says.

The Turning Points in K’s Awareness

She recognized her limiting belief: “Men = Untrustworthy”

K had always been uncomfortable around men since her school days. Influenced by her father’s infidelity, she carried a fixed belief: “Men are creatures you can’t trust.” She’d never made male friends and felt uneasy simply being around men.

As K confronted herself after her divorce, she actively worked to release this limiting belief. When she decided to “treat men and women equally as individual human beings and interact without putting up walls,” an unprecedented popular period arrived.

She built the foundation of “self-love”

In Homéren’s approach, “self-love” isn’t a complicated methodology. It’s about noticing your own feelings and treating yourself with care—and these small acts create the foundation that makes your intentions more powerful.

K was able to say “I realized my own beauty” precisely because she had built this foundation.

Her Ideal Boyfriend Appeared

Two years after her divorce, K met her current boyfriend at a matchmaking party. Her ideal list—created based on her ex-husband’s flaws—included detailed conditions: height, kindness, someone who values her feelings, emotional stability, and more.

Every single condition matched.

“I didn’t know ideals could actually manifest like this. The power of deciding what you want to believe in is amazing,” K reflected.

This one comment from K perfectly captures the essence of subconscious mind × love manifestation.