Unwavering Even When Told “I Don’t Want to Get Back Together”—A 40s Single Mother’s Reunion Success Story【054】

There was a woman who, despite feeling “maybe this is impossible,” never let go of the thought “I am loved by him.” Nine months after their breakup. No matter what reality looked like, N never wavered in her conviction. Here is her reunion success story.

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N’s Situation—Escalating Demands and a Heartbreaking Breakup

N is a single mother in her 40s. She reconnected by chance with her high school classmate in 2019, and their relationship began smoothly and naturally.

However, his demands—”if you love me, you should do at least this much”—kept escalating. Their emotions became like a rollercoaster, and exhausted, N herself initiated the breakup.

“My heart felt hollow and shattered.”

In that state, she discovered Homéren and decided to commit to the thought “I am successful, I am loved.”

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What Does Manifesting Love Through the Subconscious Mean? The Simple Mechanism of “Deciding Your Thoughts”

ほめ♡レン teaches the concept that “because you think it, it becomes so.” Once you decide on the thought “me and him, deeply in love,” you simply surrender to the subconscious, this higher power.

What matters here is how you handle your “ego.” Ego is the thought that reacts semi-automatically to events. It’s like “no contact→this is impossible,” reacting based on experience and common sense.

N explains: “Even when my ego appeared, I didn’t try to fix it—I just let it be. I’d sink as low as I needed to, and when I resurface, I’d decide again. That’s all it was.”

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The Impossible Miracle That Happened Without Any Contact

Six months after deciding her thoughts. During her commute, N began seeing his car. Despite their workplaces being in opposite directions, he appeared in close proximity—sometimes in front, sometimes behind—about three times a week.

Even when she left five minutes earlier or later, he still appeared. Though N was amazed at “how is this even possible?” she never reached out to him.

A month later, his company appeared on the news. She recalls thinking “as if pushed by something,” she texted him.

This is what’s fascinating about the subconscious—it shows that “whether or not you make contact has absolutely nothing to do with manifesting love.” While N wasn’t making contact, reality was definitely moving forward.

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N’s Mindset When Told “I Don’t Want to Get Back Together”

A month after texting, he reached out and they met. But he said, “I don’t want to get back together, I’m not confident.”

What went through N’s mind then was—

“What? But he likes me.”

No matter what reality said to her, the “I am loved by him” within N never wavered. Her words reveal this certainty: “So I decided, just within myself, that he likes me.”

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March 21st, the Cosmic New Year—He Texts “I Wanted to See You”

Even after she cut off contact, his car appeared in front of her again. Though she thought “I don’t even want to see him anymore,” she didn’t waver in her conviction.

Then on March 21st, also called the Cosmic New Year, he texted: “I wanted to see you.” N said, “Then let’s just get back together,” and they reunited.

“I decided we’d get back together today because it was the perfect fresh start.”

Such characteristically clear and refreshing words from N.

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Summary—Staying in Your Thoughts, Not in Reality

What stands out in N’s report is that no matter how much reality shook her, she never moved from her foundation of “I am loved.”

When you hear success stories about reunions, it’s easy to think “something they did made it happen.” But all N did was “decide her thoughts and keep deciding them again.” It’s okay to feel down. It’s okay if your ego shows up. Once you resurface, just decide again.

You’ve already made it work too♡