When I Admitted “I Created This Inconvenient Reality,” My Devoted Love Life Began | Subconscious Mind & Love Manifestation Success Story【052】
A work crisis led to a breakup with someone precious. Slanderous attacks sent me to rock bottom. But when I realized “I created this inconvenient reality,” something shifted——Today, we’re sharing R’s beautiful success story.
From the video channel “ほめ♡レン” (operated by Meguru & Iruru), which shares reports from people who’ve manifested love through their subconscious mind, here’s R’s experience.
R’s Profile and Situation
R is a 40-something single mother with one daughter. She works as a self-employed designer who launched a custom-made brand.
One day, a competitor spread baseless slander about her, causing major work troubles. Worse, her boyfriend at the time believed the lies, and they broke up.
Losing both her career and her relationship at once——she hit absolute rock bottom.
Until She Could Admit “I Created This Inconvenient Reality”
Right after the breakup, R wanted to reconcile. She even tried fortune-telling and spiritual cleansings.
But as time passed, she realized something important.
“The work troubles, the breakup with him——I came to accept that I had created that inconvenient reality myself. It took over a year, but once I admitted it, I finally felt at ease.”
This isn’t about blaming yourself. In the world of the subconscious mind, there’s a belief that “reality is a reflection of our thoughts.” R spent over a year internalizing this—not just intellectually, but deep in her heart.
“If I can create inconvenient realities, I can easily create convenient ones too. That realization became the turning point for my life to become easy mode.”
By admitting this, she freed herself from what had been binding her. That’s what it felt like.
The Awareness of “Not Focusing on Misfortune”
There’s an idea often discussed on ほめ♡レン called “ego disposal.”
Ego refers to thoughts that react semi-automatically to events. Things like “I was slandered → it’s all over” or “He believed the lie → I was betrayed”——these kinds of automatic reactions.
In her rock-bottom situation, R stopped riding this wave of reactions. She calls her approach “not focusing on misfortune.”
It doesn’t have to happen all at once. R took over a year to reach that point.
Once She Set Her Intention, An Even Better Man Appeared
Feeling lighter, R reset her intentions more broadly instead of focusing on reconciliation.
“I decided that as long as someone better than my ex appears, I’m open to new love.”
And she visualized her ideal partner in quite specific detail:
- Shared taste in music and fashion
- Someone who makes our shared space beautiful
- Someone who cherishes my daughter as his own child
- Someone who tells me “I love you” and “You’re beautiful” every day
- Someone who respects my work
Later, a man she met at an event made a vague, hungover impression at first. But when they met again three months later, he was in perfect condition——and strikingly handsome.
What he had done was remarkable. From their very first meeting, he sourced clothing for R, displayed it on a dress form, and decorated the space with flowers and lighting to welcome her.
“When I first met you, I thought you’d look amazing in these styles too, so I sourced them and had them tailored for you.”
R wept. After going through such hardship in her work, someone appeared who genuinely respected her career. Everything on her ideal list checked off.
R’s Parting Words
At the end of the video, R says this:
“Every trouble is just an event. All the plot threads can be resolved.”
The work crisis, the slander, the breakup——it all became setup for her present happiness. The weight in R’s words, now that she can say this, is profound.
Summary: Admitting the Truth Opens the Door to Freedom
What emerges from R’s report is this:
- R admitted “I created this inconvenient reality too” (not to blame herself, but to free herself)
- She cultivated the awareness to “not focus on misfortune,” taking her time
- Once she set her intention, a partner matching her list appeared
The term “subconscious mind” might sound complicated. But what R experienced was simple: by knowing “I’m creating this,” she discovered “I can decide this.”
R’s video contains even more detailed episodes and insights. Please check out the full video.
She didn’t change herself. She changed what she believed.
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