Magical Words That Lead You to Your True Self: “I Never Thought…”
Hello! I’m Iruru.
The other day, I uploaded a video “The magic words to help oneself in times of need.” on YouTube.
When life gets tough and overwhelming, that’s exactly when you need to speak kindly to yourself.
One of the most powerful techniques I shared was how I broke free from ego and anxiety to manifest my desires using this simple phrase: “I never thought I would become ◯◯ so quickly”
The response was incredible. Let me share some amazing feedback from our community.
You could say something like “I didn’t expect I’d be marrying her this soon.”
I can keep embodying this version of myself who already has it all, right? Adding this to my power phrases!
I never thought I’d be living with him this happily this soon~I’m so grateful~!
I’m getting goosebumps just thinking about it!
The joy and surprise make me want to jump up and down – it’s way more exciting than just saying “it’s already done.” It’s like Cinderella being enchanted and exclaiming, “I can’t believe I’m going to the ball!”
And I never thought I could turn my passion into a career and make this much money so quickly!
I found a phrase that gets me absolutely buzzing!
So many people felt inspired thinking “I can do this too!” that I wanted to dive deeper here on the blog. Here’s that video I mentioned – definitely check it out!
Traditional affirmations just didn’t click for me.
When I first discovered the subconscious mind and law of attraction, I tried every technique out there. But the one that gave me the most trouble? “Affirmations.”
Back then, I devoured every self-help book and attended workshop after workshop. Affirmations were always promoted as this incredibly powerful tool.
The word “affirmation” simply means making positive statements. In practice, it means speaking positive words to yourself.
I was taught that by repeating these positive phrases over and over, they’d eventually become my reality and manifest in my life.
The key with affirmations was supposed to be feeling like you already had what you wanted – really embodying that energy.
So instead of saying “I want to do something,” I was told to use “I am doing something” or the past tense “I have done something.”
But here’s where I hit a wall. My ego was way too strong and resistant. If I declared “I’m in a loving relationship with him!” my ego would immediately shoot back with “Are you kidding me? He’s still got you blocked and you haven’t even texted in months. This is ridiculous.” Or if I tried “I’m married to him!” my ego would jump in with “He’s probably going to marry his current girlfriend instead.” With each affirmation, these ego voices got louder and louder, making me feel more anxious until I just gave up completely.
Your desires manifest through your subconscious: “What you believe, you become.” Just be that person.
But then, during one of those seminars,
I discovered affirmations that ended with
“I didn’t expect this to happen!” and I thought, “Wait, maybe I can actually do this?”
I started experimenting with “I never thought this would turn out like this!” and shifted it to “I never thought I’d achieve this so quickly!”
For example, if you want to reconcile with someone but can’t believe it’s possible given your current situation, try “I didn’t think we’d get back together this fast!” Even if you’re not feeling it right now, doesn’t this feel more believable? From future-me’s perspective, I can look back and say, “I never thought this would actually happen back then.”
This works beyond love too. When you think “I want to be wealthy” but looking at your bank account makes “I can become rich” feel impossible, try something like “I never thought I’d be traveling anywhere I want with the people I love!” I think you’ll find this much easier to accept even when money feels tight right now. I’ve written more about money manifestation in previous posts, so definitely check those out.
https://lovesync-attraction.com/renjo/rich2/
Every time I spoke those words, I felt the emotions of my fulfilled self.
Looking back, I realize that when I said things like “I never thought I’d be earning thousands of dollars monthly this quickly,” I was genuinely feeling like someone who had already achieved that income.
When it comes to manifesting through your subconscious mind, it really is “what you believe, you become.”
I was essentially living in the state of “I believe this, so it becomes reality,” embodying the energy of my fulfilled self.
But here’s the thing – if you say “I never thought I’d reach thousands monthly this fast” while still obsessing over “I still haven’t made thousands monthly,” you’re not in the right state, and manifestation probably won’t happen.
“I didn’t expect to become this so quickly!”
If you want to try this phrase, just become that person! I want you to fully embody this version of yourself.
Manifesting through your subconscious mind works on the simple principle that “what you think, you become.”
All you need to do is be yourself – the version of you who already has what you desire.
If you want to dive deeper into this work, make sure to check out our article with recommended books on the subconscious mind and attraction!
https://lovesync-attraction.com/renjo/20221017/
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