【040】After 3 Years of Trying to Reconcile, When B Decided to Be “100% Adored,” She Received a Proposal from a New Partner

Are you someone who’s been working hard for years, thinking “I want to get back together” or “I want them to like me again”?

B is someone who spent nearly 3 years pursuing reconciliation. She paid substantial amounts to reconciliation specialists, attended seminars, and joined communities. Yet reality didn’t seem to change.

But when a certain realization led her to set the intention of being “100% adored,” she received a proposal from a new partner.

In this article, based on B’s love manifestation success story, I’ll share how her consciousness shifted.

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B’s Love Life So Far——”With Low Self-Worth, I Wanted to Stay Connected”

B, in her thirties, had repeatedly experienced relationships where she couldn’t quite become a “girlfriend.”

• 2016: Treated as a casual partner, couldn’t leave even after being told “you can’t be my girlfriend”
• 2017: Made to wait 8 hours, only to discover later he was juggling three relationships
• 2018: Started a formal relationship with a 9-year-younger partner. But 2 years later, he suddenly broke up with her via LINE the day after a summer vacation

B herself reflected: “With low self-worth, I was willing to stay connected through physical intimacy alone.”

Many of you might relate to this feeling.
That desperation of “if I lose this person, there’s no one else,” leading you to accept mistreatment rather than walk away.

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What is the Ego (the True Identity of Obstacles)?

The “ego” is a semi-automatic thought pattern that reacts to events.

“No contact → It’s hopeless”
“He left again → Of course, I’m not worthy”

It’s simply reacting based on past experiences and common sense—something separate from your true self.

B had a particularly strong ego: “I’m envious of people who can still meet their ex after breaking up” and “I’m envious of people who know about his situation through SNS or mutual friends.”

Each time this came up, B would say out loud “that’s ego,” and repeatedly reinterpreted it as “the ego is stirring because I’m moving forward toward reconciliation.” She made it work for her.

The ego doesn’t need to disappear—just notice it when it appears and discard it.
Over time, B made this her own.

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The Turning Point: “I Didn’t Actually Want Reconciliation That Much”

During 3 years of reconciliation efforts, a turning point came for B.

Frustration from lack of progress sparked grievances against him. Things she’d suppressed, things she’d romanticized—she finally became aware of them.

When she laid bare all her complaints, she asked herself:
“Do I still want to reconcile?”

The answer was——”I didn’t actually want reconciliation that much.”

“It clicked for me when I realized my true answer wasn’t reconciliation,” B reflects.

While she was suppressing her true feelings, she couldn’t see it. But when she truly listened to her own voice, the ego quieted.

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The “100% Adored” Intention——Meeting Someone as Her Authentic Self

After that, B became absorbed in her favorite anime.
She felt a sense of fulfillment.

When she rejoined a dating app, it was simply because she felt like it. Without worrying about male appeal, she wrote an honest profile that only mentioned her beloved anime.

“My current partner shared the same anime interests, so that mattered too,” B says.

The partner who fell for B exactly as she was—authentic and true to herself—proposed to her.

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When You Treat Yourself With Care, Your Surroundings Change

There’s one particularly striking phrase from B’s success story:

“When I stopped blaming myself and became deliberate about treating myself with care, I became someone valued by those around me.”

Her parents’ words changed.
People started saying to her, “You always think of others and treat them so thoughtfully.”
Her current partner “treasures the things and feelings I cherish as if they were his own.”

This is what “thoughts come first, reality follows” means in the subconscious world.
The thought of self-care came first, and reality reflected it back.

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Summary: B’s Shift in Consciousness

What emerged from B’s story:

• When ego arose, she noticed it with “that’s ego” and reinterpreted it favorably (she didn’t struggle with it)
• She became aware she was suppressing her true feelings and chose honesty with herself
• Instead of reconciliation, she chose the intention of being “100% adored”
• She remained authentic and treated herself with care consistently

Here’s what B says:

“If you believe your love life is difficult and your case is special, know that you’re a chosen person with the power to even reverse such hardship.”

For details, please watch B’s success story video.