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Contents

Before the Table of Contents
Because You Think So, It Becomes So
When Reality or Ego Bothers You
When You're Focused on the Outside—Him, Friends, Society
- When You’re Concerned About Him, Friends, Family, Society, or Common Sense
- Forgiving, Praising, Letting Go, Being Kind to Yourself—About Self-Love
Encounters
SHOP

Before the Table of Contents

The subconscious mind follows this simple rule: “Because you think so, it becomes so.” That’s all there is to it.
Apply this to love, and it becomes:
“Because I believe we’re in love, we become in love.”

If you want to know more, click here ⇒ Getting Back Together is a Piece of Cake with “Because I Think So, It Becomes So!”

However, for some reason, people often get caught up in endless methods and tangled up in ego.
Even though this is the simplest and most straightforward law, it ends up feeling overly complicated and incredibly difficult.

Ultimately, there's only one reason for this:

They can't fully commit to “just thinking so.”

“Because I think so, it becomes so” means “I am the one who thinks it.”
As long as you think “I'm in love with him,” that’s it. Period.

But the ego whispers, “Okay, but when will this show up in reality?”
And the moment you start caring about the real world,
you begin to get elated or devastated by his actions, a friend’s comment, what your parents say, or a fortune-teller’s prediction—
and no wonder everything seems “complicated.”

To change this reality, people start trying all kinds of methods:
"At least let me do a method to make him message me…" But think carefully—

That attitude isn’t using your subconscious at all…

So, as we build this table of contents, we’ll include:

◆“Because I think so, it becomes so” ◆“When you get caught up in reality or ego” ◆“When it’s all about him, him, him—focused entirely on the outside”

We’ve included common pitfalls as headings and linked related articles under them. If anything catches your interest, feel free to explore!

Because You Think So, It Becomes So

What does “Because you think so, it becomes so” mean?

If you want to understand more about the subconscious concept of “Because you think so, it becomes so,” or want to explore what "thought" truly means, check out these articles!

What is “thought” or “state of being”?

At Home♡Ren, we often use the example of “me being in love with him” to explain “thought.” We encourage you to decide your state of being. For more on “thought” and “state of being,” check out these articles:

Can’t fully commit to your “thought”?

If you're trying to set your intention but can’t quite clarify it—or if you’re feeling uncertain—these articles are for you.

Living from the place where it’s already fulfilled

Start from the place where it’s already yours. Be someone who is already living their dream. There are many ways to describe it, but the point is to root yourself in the mindset of “It’s already going well.” These articles relate to that perspective.

You don’t need knowledge for “Because you think so, it becomes so”

If you understand that “What you think simply becomes reflected,” then all you need is to just *think*. No knowledge necessary. But still, if you find it hard to calm your mind without doing something, here are some articles to help soothe your emotions in those moments.

Becoming

“Becoming” is simple. “I’ve become the me who’s in love with him! That’s it!” You say, “I don’t know if I’ve really become that person…” — But you do. Have you ever doubted your own name? Probably not, right? Live with that same level of certainty. That’s the state of “already become.”

♡Once you “become,” you are already in that world

Change in Perception

A change in perception means realizing that what you thought “didn’t exist” was actually always there. It’s the moment when you deeply understand: “Wait... it was already fulfilled all along.” This concept also ties into the idea that “you = the world.”

♡Change in Perception♡ If “everything exists,” then the world where you're already in love with him must exist too!

Don’t Move an Inch

This is essentially the same as being in the state of “already fulfilled” or “it’s already going well.” But we wanted to emphasize this with strong intention, so we created a separate category called “Don’t Move an Inch!”

[Series: Questions from Readers Vol.21] I’ve decided I’m in love with him. But what do I say when my friends ask, “So, what’s going on with him?”

You = The World

When your perception changes, you begin to experience the feeling that “I am the world.” “You = the world” means that the world unfolds exactly in line with how you perceive it. The deeper you explore this, the closer you get to the ultimate truth: that there are no “others.” We hope to share more on this once we find better ways to put it into words.

What Kind of “You” Are You Being?

Are you being the version of you who keeps getting cheated on, who struggles after getting into relationships, who never gets to meet him, who always wants to get back together…? Or are you the version of you who’s already doing well? This section gathers articles that help you reflect on “What kind of me am I being?”

When Reality or Ego Bothers You

When You’re Distracted by Reality

You’ve decided on your “thought”—that you’re in love with him. But you can’t stop noticing reality... You *want* to ignore it, but you just can’t. When that happens, these articles may help ground you.

When Reality Feels Stronger Than Your Thought

In the end, you're putting reality above your thought. This happens a lot. But if you really think about it, it probably means you're not using your subconscious mind at all…

When You’re Feeling Anxious

When you’re overthinking everything and spiral into wild imagination, these articles can help ease your mind.

When Ego Gets Loud or Throws You Off

“Ego” is the automatic thought reaction to an event. For example, when you hear, “He has a new girlfriend,” that’s just a fact. But the ego instantly turns that into “It’s over,” “It’s hopeless,” “I’ve lost.” When that kind of ego takes over, read these articles.

Throw Out Your Ego

Ego is just a reaction to something—it can’t be erased. So don’t fight it. Just ignore it, throw it away, or let it go.

When You’re Frustrated with Him

If there’s something about him that annoys you— If you think “If only this one thing would change!” These are the articles to read.

When You Feel Lack

“Because you think so, it becomes so” also means: “You already have it.” But we’ve become experts at finding “what’s missing.” Here are some articles to help shift that mindset.

How You Interpret What Happens

Events are just events. But based on past experience, we often instantly interpret them negatively. If we can tie things to the negative that fast, we can tie them to the positive just as quickly! Your interpretation of events—repeated again and again—is what creates your reality.

[Series: Questions from Readers Vol.12] The guy I want to reconcile with has a new girlfriend and is apparently getting married. Is there *any* hope for me?

When You Feel Attached

People often ask: “If I’m attached, does that mean it won’t come true?” But no—that’s not how it works. Attachment often gets a bad rap, like it’s “heavy” or “clingy.” But just wanting a specific person already means you're somewhat attached!

When You’re Worried About Contact

One of the most common themes in our consultations is about “contact.” Does getting a reply mean your wish will come true? Does silence mean it won’t? That’s a false belief. Even couples who message every day can break up. You know that, right?

When What Happens Isn’t What You Expected

You’ve decided “I’m in love with him.” Then suddenly—BAM! Something unexpected happens. Maybe something that feels completely opposite… Maybe someone *else* starts falling for you. There are many ways this shows up.

Self-Scripting (Unconscious Role-Playing)

When You're Focused on the Outside—Him, Friends, Society

When You’re Concerned About Him, Friends, Family, Society, or Common Sense

“He said this,” “My friends and family told me to stop seeing him,” “My relationship isn’t accepted by society,” “According to common sense, this is impossible...” Many people get totally caught up in the outside world.
We’ll say it again:
“Because I think so” means you think so.
The only thing to focus on is you.
But if you still find yourself distracted by what’s outside, read these:

Forgiving, Praising, Letting Go, Being Kind to Yourself—About Self-Love

“Self-love” is all about shifting your attention inward—away from the outside world. But for many, loving yourself is something they’ve never done before. If that sounds like you, check out these articles on self-love:

Encounters

We often hear, “I haven’t had any new encounters in forever.” If you want to meet someone, it’s actually the same process: From the perspective of already being the “me who’s doing well,” ask yourself—How would I spend time with someone I’ve just met?

SHOP

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If You’re Wondering Where to Begin… The Home♡Ren Index

Before the Table of Contents

Because You Think So, It Becomes So

What does “Because you think so, it becomes so” mean?

What is “thought” or “state of being”?

Can’t fully commit to your “thought”?

Living from the place where it’s already fulfilled

You don’t need knowledge for “Because you think so, it becomes so”

Becoming

Change in Perception

Don’t Move an Inch

You = The World

What Kind of “You” Are You Being?

When Reality or Ego Bothers You

When You’re Distracted by Reality

When Reality Feels Stronger Than Your Thought

When You’re Feeling Anxious

When Ego Gets Loud or Throws You Off

Throw Out Your Ego

When You’re Frustrated with Him

When You Feel Lack

How You Interpret What Happens

When You Feel Attached

When You’re Worried About Contact

When What Happens Isn’t What You Expected

Self-Scripting (Unconscious Role-Playing)

When You're Focused on the Outside—Him, Friends, Society

When You’re Concerned About Him, Friends, Family, Society, or Common Sense

Forgiving, Praising, Letting Go, Being Kind to Yourself—About Self-Love

Encounters

SHOP

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