In the End, It’s 100% What You Decide
This blog explores how the principle of “as you think, so it becomes” from your subconscious applies to love, sharing practical techniques and methods to help you create a deeply loving relationship with your partner.
My video “In the End, It’s 100% Your Decision” struck a chord with so many of you, so I wanted to dive deeper into this topic here on the blog. (You’ll find the video at the end of this post!)
When people think about the subconscious mind, they often assume it’s only for manifesting big, life-changing desires.
But that’s simply not true. Let me say this again, even if I sound like a broken record:
The law of your subconscious mind is simple: “You become what you think.” When it comes to love, this means: “I’ve decided to be deeply in love with him, so I will be deeply in love with him.”
Wait, does this only work for love? Not even close!
I wanted water → I got water
I wanted food → I ate
I wanted to see a movie → I went
It works for everything, just like that.
Getting back together works the same way. It all starts with “I’ve decided this will happen.”
When you decide on a thought like “I’m going to be happy and in love with my boyfriend,” that’s exactly what unfolds.
When you start panicking because “nothing’s changing!” and let anxiety take over
But here’s the thing – just thinking “I want water” doesn’t automatically make water appear in your hand.
Nothing in my reality is changing…
That’s when the worry spiral begins.
“How do I even know if I’ve really decided something? It’s not like I can see it!” “Am I doing this right?”
“What if I’m doing it wrong?”
“If I’m wrong, I’ve wasted months of my life!”
“I need someone to tell me if I’m on the right track!”
So let’s say Meguru tells you, “Yes, you’re doing everything right,” and you feel this huge wave of relief. What happens a month later when…
Still nothing has changed!!!
What goes through your mind then? Come on, be honest with me.
Really, what do you think? Tell me the truth.
“Meguru’s a fraud!” “So I wasn’t doing it right after all?” “Did I mess up somewhere?”
You might think all sorts of things, but underneath every single thought is one core feeling:
It didn’t work!!! (complete meltdown)
Am I right?
Meguru said “You’re doing it right.” You felt so relieved. But a month later you’re screaming “This is all wrong because NOTHING HAPPENED!”
There it is! (I see you!)
In the end, you decided “I failed!” Only you can make that final call: “I failed!”
So what’s it going to be: “I failed!” or “Actually, I’ve got this!”?
At the end of the day, it comes down to how you see yourself. Sure, you can blame other people or circumstances, but ultimately? You’re the judge.
You’re the only one making that final decision.
Sometimes you don’t even realize you’ve slipped into “I’m just not good at this” mode because a friend said something or your partner did something that triggered that feeling.
But flip it around – this works the other way too, right?
If you could slip into “This isn’t working for me!”
Then you can absolutely choose “I’m making this happen!”
I hear so many stories about wanting to give up when reality feels stuck, but here’s what I want you to remember: no matter how loud your ego gets,
End with “This IS working out for me!”
Even when a psychic tells you it won’t work out,
You can still say “It’s fine because it’s working out.” Even when your parents or friends say “Why are you wasting time on someone who’s not worth it?” you can still say “It’s fine because it’s working out.”
What if I can’t stay in “everything’s working out” mode?
When you can’t maintain that “everything’s working out” energy, based on what I’ve noticed in most cases, it’s usually because “reality seems stuck no matter how much time passes.”
At first, you feel great, right? You might think “This is so easy!”
But slowly, doubt and your ego start creeping in, making you wonder if you’re fooling yourself. And that’s when things get really interesting!
But here’s the trap: the moment you start doubting, instead of “as you think, so it becomes,” you flip to “let me see what’s happening first, then I’ll think about it.” This switches you from “the me who has it all” to “the me who doesn’t.”
This is why I keep emphasizing: don’t get so caught up watching reality. Focus on your thoughts instead. I repeat this because it’s absolutely crucial!
And when you feel confused and overwhelmed thinking “I don’t understand any of this!” – in those moments, just pick whatever feels lighter and easier. Always go for the lighter option.
So when you’re stuck, choose what feels lighter, not what your logical mind thinks makes sense. Keep this in your back pocket.
Click here for a video about how the final decision is 100% made by you.
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