Can Your Desires Change From Day to Day?

Hello, I’m Iruru.

Yesterday you wanted to get back together.
But today you want someone new.

I think this is completely normal.

Our feelings shift all the time—it’s just part of being human.

Something might happen that suddenly makes you realize your heart wants the complete opposite of what it wanted yesterday.

Today, I want to talk about how our “desires” can change from one day to the next.

The only way to manifest through your subconscious is by deciding your thoughts.

Let me quickly remind you how this works…

On this blog, subconscious manifestation follows this simple principle: “I believe it, so it becomes reality.”

In love, it’s “I believe I’m with him, so I am with him.”

Your job is simply to decide what you want to create.

The part about “being lovey-dovey with him” is your “thought.”

But “I believe it” and “I’ve decided” doesn’t mean you need to keep repeating “I am with him” like a broken record once you’ve made your choice.

There’s no perfect formula for deciding, but in my experience, once you decide you’re with him, that’s it. You don’t need to overthink it anymore.
What’s left is simply living your life peacefully and embracing the joy that’s right in front of you.

Can we change our minds frequently?

So can this “thought” change like a daily menu special? My answer is absolutely “YES.” And honestly, if your thoughts do shift this way, I think that’s perfectly okay.

Yesterday, you might have wanted to reconcile. Today, you might feel drawn to a fresh start with someone new. If that’s genuinely what your heart is telling you right now, then I believe it’s completely valid. But if your thoughts are changing constantly, it might mean you haven’t quite figured out what you truly want deep down, or you’re still uncertain about the “thought” you’ve chosen.

When this happens, I encourage you to tune into how you want to feel and be gentle with your own emotions. Through this kind of self-compassion, you might eventually discover the thought that truly resonates with your heart.

What do you want right now, and how do you want to feel? As you explore your own “thoughts,” you might find that one particular desire starts to feel more authentic and clear.

When you don’t know what you want, let your subconscious decide!

I’ve been exactly where you are—going back and forth every single day about whether I should try to reconcile or open my heart to someone new.

During that time, I genuinely loved the person I wanted to get back together with, but I couldn’t imagine us living peacefully together because of our personality clashes. I kept bouncing between thinking someone else might be a better fit and wanting to go back because my love was still so strong.

Back then, I had no clue what I actually wanted, so my thoughts would flip practically every day.

One day I’d think, “I absolutely have to get back together with him!” Then I’d read someone’s blog post and think, “I want to fall head over heels for someone completely new!” My mind was all over the place, and I became totally confused about which path I actually wanted to manifest.

But then one day, I noticed something: there was one thought that never changed. I wanted to be happy and enjoy my days, whether he was in my life or not, no matter who “he” turned out to be.

That felt like the truest thing about me. So I decided to let my subconscious mind choose between “reconciliation” and “new love” while I focused on what I knew for sure. And you know what? In my case, it led me to “new love” and “someone new.”

When you’re not sure what you want, self-reflection might not give you instant clarity—it’s a process that takes time. Overthinking these situations usually just feeds our ego’s wants instead of our heart’s truth.

So when your thoughts keep shifting, I personally recommend focusing on the thoughts that stay steady and trusting your subconscious mind with the rest. If this feels right to you, I’d love for you to give it a try.

Sending you love, Iruru